Have her by the hips... then what?!

[silverwex]

Right I dont wanna be flamed for this or anything and im brushing up on my convo skills AND its not normal to talk to girls on the dancefloor over here but...

Theres this girl whos been giing me the eye fr the past few weeks on the dancefloor in the local club.

Last week I had her by the hips on the floor as she was backing into me. She looked around to see me and didnt seem to mind me holding her. All her friend are dancing with her.

Anyway my q is: Do i continue to hld her by the hips til she turns round to me and then kiss close?

OR...

Do I turn her round to me and then kiss close (taking her away from her friends)?

She also bumped into me (doubt it was by accident as the floor is BIG) while walking past me twice... Obvious sign shes interested?

Ireland and UK DJs would prob answer this q better (as theyre used to girls over here) but id appreciate any comments?

Dont flame me, as im nearly outta me AFC stage!

Thanks

 

[silverwex]

Come on guys?

 

[Kodiac]

1. Grind her from behind.
2. Use ur arms to trace up and down her sides, arms etc...
3. Spin her round.
4. Repeat 1 & 2 above.
5. Kissssss
6. Fuk
7. Go back to step 6

All sign's point to - she want's you!

 

[silverwex]

thanks man.

yeah my friends even say she seems into me.

a lot of the time she talks to her friend and they both look over at me.

its just hard when u kinda like her too.

im a natural when the girl is 'ok'. but when shes hot (shes a 9) its harder to risk things, ya know?

think i have to read the bible again. pooks 'kill that desperation' is the best post ever! mr fingers is also cool. but i need some 'real time' (!) advice!

 

[kyokon]

im a natural when the girl is 'ok'. but when shes hot (shes a 9) its harder to risk things, ya know?

Isn't it funny how that is so right, and yet still so very wrong? I know exactly what you mean though...

 

[CLOONEY]

You like her? like you want to date her? or you just wanna fukc? If you wanna date her, just ask her to come sit down for a minute, then get the digits, small talk and get back out there dancing.

If you just wanna fukc, and she does also, she will prob turn around, not a good idea to force it or she will think your a sleeze. Once she turns around go for a few kisses, on the neck included, make them soft, this should make her horny. Then ask her to come for a walk, if she wants in she will go for a walk, find a quite place and then wham bam thankyou mam!!

 

[BRYCEicl]

shes into you! id wait until she turns around, she's probably used to guys jumping the gun and i think she's just testing the waters to see what your going to do. i think you should keep cool, go with whatever to show your not desperate.

 

[bp1974]

Don't go straight from hip-holding to kissing (damn, the censor here's so strict I automatically typed k*ssing).

You need to move things forward naturally and easily. Go from hip-holding, to sliding your hands up and down her hips and waist. Then if she still hasn't turned around, or even if she has, take your hands off and then put them on her shoulders/upper arms and dance some more. Then slide your hands slowly down her arms and gently bring her back against you so she's brushing your chest as she dances. Etc.

Avoid touching her tits and ass, but enjoy exploring the rest of her. If that doesn't work, she's not into you, and I've no idea why she lets you hold her hips as you dance. Maybe she thinks you need to hold onto something to keep your balance.

 

[The Business Man]

Bite her and take her to the ground.

Go from there.

 

[silverwex]

thanks guys.

you're so very helpful... as per usual!