"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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have days gotten longer?

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I don't know if anyone else experienced this, but I had an almost reactionary approach to life from my uber-AFCness to a "godlike-Don Juan incarnate" overnight. But of course young Padowan [sic], such things only seem to cause more problems than solutions....

Remember, take a deep breath each morning, see what you are (and how you appear to the outside world), and most importantly, have a nice day.

This really all should be natural but at some point our critical flaws have overcome our inherent natural beauty with women and more importantly, life in general,

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude, that was profound. at least, as profound as incohoerent, unintelligable rambling is capable of being.
 
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good weed...real good weed.
 
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well, actually

it was probably with the purchase and consumption of my first "bag of happy" that the first threads of my AFC-ness/uptightness began to unravel... I noticed from that point on, being from a very conservative area in Georgia, who my real homeboys and girls were and who were the haters who just tried to keep me down...

Enlightenment can be found almost everywhere, even a common weed,

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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