"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Have any of you ever heard of "Don Juanism?"

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I'm surprised this hasn't been posted on here before...

Here is the link to the original article:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Don_Juanism

Wikipedia said:
Don Juanism is a non-technical psychological descriptive term for a man who has a desire to have sex with many different partners and who may be a "seducer of women." The name is derived from the legendary Don Juan of opera and fiction, who seems in turn to have been patterned after an historical person, the Spanish noble Don Juan Tenorio. The psychological disorder, satyriasis, is sometimes considered to be synonymous with Don Juanism. It has been argued [1] that satyriasis is the term applying to males exhibiting the same condition called nymphomania (L. furor uterinus) in female behavior. If this is so, "Don Juanism" is for males the equivalent term for "nymphomania" in females. Historian Carol Groneman has demonstrated that these terms no longer apply with any accuracy as psychological or legal categories of psychological disorder.

Psychologist Carl Jung believed that Don Juanism was an unconscious desire of a man to seek his mother in every woman he encountered. However, he didn't see the trait as entirely negative; Jung felt that positive aspects of Don Juanism included heroism, perseverance and strength of will. This aspect of the character is examined by Mozart and his librettist Da Ponte in their opera Don Giovanni, perhaps the best-known artistic work on this subject. To write their opera, Mozart and Da Ponte are known to have consulted with the famous libertine, Giacomo Casanova, the usual historic example of Don Juanism. Casanova attended the premiere of this opera, which was probably understood by the audience to be about himself. In a famous passage the philosopher Kierkegaard discusses Mozart's version of the Don Juan story. Albert Camus has also written on the subject.

See Also:

Free Love
Casanova
Kierkegaard Either/Or
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Holy hell dude...

I just stumbled on this article ten minutes ago, and now I find you posted it here! Talk about coincidences...

Now I'm on wiki reading the biography of Casanova and the story of Dun Juan Tenorino
 
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