"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have any of you created your own Action Dates?

AAAgent

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Just as the title says. What are some of your action dates guys?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Things I've done...

Basketball, frisby, build snowman (if its snowing), simple walk in the park, paintball, fishing, target shooting, bowling, pool, swiming, hot tub, throwing eggs at cars off a building, going to a party, barbeque.. those are the main ones.
 

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ACTION DATES-now these types of dates are ideal. You are not just there to meet her, you are doing something together (playing pool, mini-golfing, air hockey, etc) The activity acts as a safety net AKA Buffer Zone.. You are not seated directly across from them, the tension tends to be a little lighter as the focus is presumed on the activity and not directly on them. Touching is natural , kino is possible as you can show them how to stand, hold the stick, position them, high five for a great shot, etc. Bounce potential is attainable. A good tip would be to play for favorites……you could start off with playing for a dollar, then move up to hugs ‘n’ kisses….if you are really bold and she is adventurous increase the bets. Loser has to give the winner a rock star kiss, back massage, oral, etc.

Your goal is to associate having a good time with you. When you are seated across from one another in a public place like a coffeehouse it can be stressful, adversarial, there is very little personal space. It’s a lot easier to bounce, kino, redirect focus on the Buffer zone on action dates.
 

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Pool is the best...then after a few drinks (I can't play for **** without a buzz) everything comes so much easier. Plus it's not really putting yourself out there if you invite a chick to come shoot some pool with you, and a lot of girls aren't that good so you can always teach them something.
 

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lets see, i've done ice skating, games like taboo, and arcades.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go to a place like Boomers or Mulligan (or whatever its called where you live) that have a whole bunch of stuff like go-karts, miniature golf, batting cages, arcade, etc. With those options you can kinda feel out what she likes to do. I found miniature golf to be really good because a lot of girls suck at it and you can go behind them and teach them which can set up a lot of sexual kino.
 
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