“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Have any of you all had this feeling?

JerryFl08

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Alright so I'm a freshman in college now and it's great. There's girls everywhere plenty of things to do its just great. To my point know, in my art appreciation class to my left there are these two girls. The one next to me is amazingly cute and the other one is pretty hot. and to the left of her there is this guy who is always trying to bust a move on them and does talk to them but he never shuts up, cussing left an right just your typical douchebag that you wanta punch in the face.

note: The only time i've talked to the cute girl was when she was not sitting down because she said she saw a bug,i had told her jokingly "Hey what's that by your foot" she just hit me and said hey don't do that's mean.

When i'm here at home i tell myself alright i'm gonna talk to these girls tomorow say hi get to know them ;) whatever you know. But then once i get in the class, i have like a sudden change of feeling. I don't feel like talking to them, it's like if i find it pointless to talk with them. Instead i'm there laid back in my seat listening to the lecture talking with my buddy who's on my right. I just don't feel the need to talk with them and I don't know why i get this feeling, so in the end i just don't talk with them.

I guess the good thing is that I'm displaying good body language, i feel real relaxed like if i'm just chilling there. And i do learn the lecture and stuff we're suppose to learn. The cute girl is always tapping her pen on the desk which i noticed, dunno if it's a sign that she wants me to talk with her or if its just something she typically does.

It's weird i wanta talk with them but then all of a sudden i lose interest once i get in class. What do you all think though, have any of you all ever had this feeling?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gray The Prince

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Yeah bro, I'm a college Freshman too. And I know EXACTLY how that feels. It wouldn't hurt to gain up the courage to talk to them though. Just as long as you don't over do it like the ******* to your left.
 

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glad to know i'm not the only one. It's weird because usually when i talk with girls it's because i feel like it and because of that i come across as a fun guy.. But because i don't feel like it, i think i'd be forcing myself to talk and making it all akward and come across all insecure.
 

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No big deal, just talk like you would to a guy."hey hows it going?" "ready for the test?" Nothing more or less. If she's feeling you, she'll figure out how to talk to you.[they never shut up]
 

JerryFl08

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sodbuster said:
No big deal, just talk like you would to a guy."hey hows it going?" "ready for the test?" Nothing more or less. If she's feeling you, she'll figure out how to talk to you.[they never shut up]
That's actually a good point, i'll definitely keep that in mind from now on
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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