"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Have any of you all had this feeling?

JerryFl08

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Alright so I'm a freshman in college now and it's great. There's girls everywhere plenty of things to do its just great. To my point know, in my art appreciation class to my left there are these two girls. The one next to me is amazingly cute and the other one is pretty hot. and to the left of her there is this guy who is always trying to bust a move on them and does talk to them but he never shuts up, cussing left an right just your typical douchebag that you wanta punch in the face.

note: The only time i've talked to the cute girl was when she was not sitting down because she said she saw a bug,i had told her jokingly "Hey what's that by your foot" she just hit me and said hey don't do that's mean.

When i'm here at home i tell myself alright i'm gonna talk to these girls tomorow say hi get to know them ;) whatever you know. But then once i get in the class, i have like a sudden change of feeling. I don't feel like talking to them, it's like if i find it pointless to talk with them. Instead i'm there laid back in my seat listening to the lecture talking with my buddy who's on my right. I just don't feel the need to talk with them and I don't know why i get this feeling, so in the end i just don't talk with them.

I guess the good thing is that I'm displaying good body language, i feel real relaxed like if i'm just chilling there. And i do learn the lecture and stuff we're suppose to learn. The cute girl is always tapping her pen on the desk which i noticed, dunno if it's a sign that she wants me to talk with her or if its just something she typically does.

It's weird i wanta talk with them but then all of a sudden i lose interest once i get in class. What do you all think though, have any of you all ever had this feeling?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gray The Prince

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Yeah bro, I'm a college Freshman too. And I know EXACTLY how that feels. It wouldn't hurt to gain up the courage to talk to them though. Just as long as you don't over do it like the ******* to your left.
 

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glad to know i'm not the only one. It's weird because usually when i talk with girls it's because i feel like it and because of that i come across as a fun guy.. But because i don't feel like it, i think i'd be forcing myself to talk and making it all akward and come across all insecure.
 

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No big deal, just talk like you would to a guy."hey hows it going?" "ready for the test?" Nothing more or less. If she's feeling you, she'll figure out how to talk to you.[they never shut up]
 

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sodbuster said:
No big deal, just talk like you would to a guy."hey hows it going?" "ready for the test?" Nothing more or less. If she's feeling you, she'll figure out how to talk to you.[they never shut up]
That's actually a good point, i'll definitely keep that in mind from now on
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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