When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Let me elaborate a little more on what exactly my mentor is charging me $100 per month for.Stud said:While Vice is right about having a mentor on your side, you should never pay for one. All your mentor is concerned about is the cash and if you think otherwise, ask yourself, if I stopped paying this man his $100 / month (paltry sum for a mentor worth his salt), would he continue to help me research deals or whatever else he does with you? The answer is more than likely no, which tells you where his true intentions lie.
Why couldn't he buy the house with cash? Don't listen to stooges being filled up with guru's garbage. The real estate community is filled with them, very similar to the PUA community. There is no right or wrong answer, just know that where there is a will there is a way, especially when it comes to creative real estate financing.
elite7, you're obviously very inexperienced in real estate. I would suggest reading books and finding somebody who has done well in real estate and pick their brain. There will be plenty of foreclosures on the market for years to come.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.