Have a Girl as a friend?

[Legend]

If you do you probably want to get in her panties. I have this chick that i have been wanting to get in her pants for a while now. Well, to make a long story short you have to talk about sex and be sexual in order to get her to think of you in a sexual way.

I told her that i have needs and she does'nt please any of them. She was like..."John omg we are just friends"

I was always nice and a true gentlemen to this girl...what a mistake. I changed that slowly and kept on giving her this sexual comments. Remember....dont over do the sexual stuff just dont be afraid to express yourself about it. Dont let her think thats all you want because it really should'nt be.

It could be as easy as you two walking down the street and some dude walks by, you say, yeah i bet he has a tiny penis. She will probably laugh and ask about your penis. Then you say...its going to take more then that to give into these pants babe.


Just bring sexual stuff up...like whats your favorite position, where do you want our first time to be, can i touch your belly button from the inside...stupid shyt like this. I have been pulling this the last couple of weeks and have increased my game time by a lot. Sure we are still "just friends" but at least she knows she can call me over when shes in the mood.

this is just my opinion of what seems to be working for me during these couple of weeks. The only problem now is me getting attached to her while she still wants to be friends, but that is a whole other story.

-John

 

[katoom]

It can be a good thing to have a girl as just a friend though. Me and this girl from work are totally plutonic and talk and hang out all the time. Some times its good to have a girl's perspective on things. I cant count the times shes stopped me from doing something extremly stupid.

 

[Lone_raider]

Yeah that situation is usually one you want to stay out of for that reason of getting attached, but I've been conducting a "friend" experiment myself.

Before I continue I want to strongly point out that this girl was not my soul focus!!! I have dated a few other women and still actively pursue others during this ongoing experiment! Never get focused on just one! That aside.........

I went out with this girl twice, it ended although it was never really started lol, so I moved on so did she, but we started meeting up for coffee or whatever a few weeks after.

Now having been at the DJ site here for a while at the time, and learning from my past experiences I knew what traps not to fall into. I never became an emotional tampon, she's got problems, she can tell her girlfriends not me. I was the person to use the word "friend" first in referring to her. I beat her to the punch, should have seen the look! I also openly told her about a girl I had dated, and I also made some up (doesn't really matter) she doesn't know and it serves my purpose of showing value. I would always bust her in a ****y funny way, like the time I told her she was an attention *****. She asked me what that was, and when I told her I got more stupified looks and playful hits from her lol.

Sex by the way is always topic. I started mild to see her comfort level about the topic and it's escalated ever since, big time. I mean the other night she was telling me some of the items she has used for masturbation! That is pretty bold for a girl, I didn't expect that even! But seeing how I've made sex a regular topic that comes up almost every time we meet, she is comfortable with it and goes along! In fact she often starts the sex talk now.

I also used physical contact in a hot/cold fashion. Sometimes I've touched her a lot on the lower through up back, around the side, put my arm around her. Other nights I don't touch her ever, even by accident.

I also flirt with women at stores and shops right in front of her lol. This has driven her wild as of late. I get comments like,"were you flirting with that girl" or "who the hell is she" lol. Jealousy is a natural trait in women I think, so long as you give them something to be jealous about.

But after all this, I'm not really sure I even want this girl. It's just an experiment to see how to be around as an available option as opposed to a sad puppy dog friend, who loves the girl so much it hurts and you can never have her.

What's the result? Well I've never bought her anything but she has now bought me multiple gifts. She sometimes slips and alludes to a future situation where we are married, or dating! Funny as I've never brought this up? She calls me all the time to set up meetings, rarely do I ever set up a coffee date, or a movie.

She has become very attached in the last 2 weeks, can't seem to go two days without wanting to contact me in some way. I may give it a shot, of course she was the one who drifted away when we first dated so long ago, so I'm not sure I want to gove her the chance again.

 

[MisterAl]

How is this working? Have you boned her yet? You didn't tell that part of the story. Looks like acute one-itis to me.

I almost converted a friend once a few years ago, when I had contracted the worst case of one-itis ever. When she hugged me goodbye after spending the day together I gave her the best kiss ever. She was stunned speechless; she just stood there. The element of surprise was a factor.

We began dating but I destroyed it within three weeks by being a chump and a loser. I told her all about my deep feelings for her and I bored her to death on the telephone. Moron. I lost my life-long friend and I did not score.

Do yourself a favor and stop trying to bone women who have already friend-zoned you.

 

[becker]

Originally posted by Lone_raider
Yeah that situation is usually one you want to stay out of for that reason of getting attached, but I've been conducting a "friend" experiment myself.

Before I continue I want to strongly point out that this girl was not my soul focus!!! I have dated a few other women and still actively pursue others during this ongoing experiment! Never get focused on just one! That aside.........

I went out with this girl twice, it ended although it was never really started lol, so I moved on so did she, but we started meeting up for coffee or whatever a few weeks after.

Now having been at the DJ site here for a while at the time, and learning from my past experiences I knew what traps not to fall into. I never became an emotional tampon, she's got problems, she can tell her girlfriends not me. I was the person to use the word "friend" first in referring to her. I beat her to the punch, should have seen the look! I also openly told her about a girl I had dated, and I also made some up (doesn't really matter) she doesn't know and it serves my purpose of showing value. I would always bust her in a ****y funny way, like the time I told her she was an attention *****. She asked me what that was, and when I told her I got more stupified looks and playful hits from her lol.

Sex by the way is always topic. I started mild to see her comfort level about the topic and it's escalated ever since, big time. I mean the other night she was telling me some of the items she has used for masturbation! That is pretty bold for a girl, I didn't expect that even! But seeing how I've made sex a regular topic that comes up almost every time we meet, she is comfortable with it and goes along! In fact she often starts the sex talk now.

I also used physical contact in a hot/cold fashion. Sometimes I've touched her a lot on the lower through up back, around the side, put my arm around her. Other nights I don't touch her ever, even by accident.

I also flirt with women at stores and shops right in front of her lol. This has driven her wild as of late. I get comments like,"were you flirting with that girl" or "who the hell is she" lol. Jealousy is a natural trait in women I think, so long as you give them something to be jealous about.

But after all this, I'm not really sure I even want this girl. It's just an experiment to see how to be around as an available option as opposed to a sad puppy dog friend, who loves the girl so much it hurts and you can never have her.

What's the result? Well I've never bought her anything but she has now bought me multiple gifts. She sometimes slips and alludes to a future situation where we are married, or dating! Funny as I've never brought this up? She calls me all the time to set up meetings, rarely do I ever set up a coffee date, or a movie.

She has become very attached in the last 2 weeks, can't seem to go two days without wanting to contact me in some way. I may give it a shot, of course she was the one who drifted away when we first dated so long ago, so I'm not sure I want to gove her the chance again.

Well done, Lone_Raider!

 

[Legend]

Do yourself a favor and stop trying to bone women who have already friend-zoned you.

I would try this but its sorta hard when her mouth is around my ......

I can see what you mean about having girls as just friends, i like that and i like being around them. Even if nothing more happens between me and this girl i really do care about her a lot.