any advice for trying to have my cake and eat it too?
last week, i got in a pretty nasty fight with my gf. the next night (thursday) i go out with some friends and end up spending the night with this younger little hottie. didn't have sex, but made her squeal pretty good and she's called me like 4 times already.
i'm workin the not too available/mystery thing pretty good. new girl wants me like i said.
so i had plans to hang out with my gf sunday and saturday night i'm thinkin i'm gonna see how it goes (cuz we were fighting) and maybe i might break up with her because i want to pursue things with this new girl. totally didn't happen, and we were getting along great (figures). i spent most of the day in bed with her, and i stalled on doing anything about the situation.
at my core, i want to pursue things with this new girl, but i dont want that to mean i am closing the door forever with my gf. because a month from now, i might totally want her back. but i know this is tough to pull off, and i know a lot of you are gonna tell me i'm a bad person for doing this to my gf.
i've thought about telling her the truth, that i want to see other people, but that doesn't mean i have stopped liking her. but i dont want to hurt her feelings, and i'm sure that probably will.
i need to just grow a pair and make a decision, but it's easier said than done.
i'm not married, and i want to sex as many girls as possible before i do settle down, but i DO like my gf alot too. sticky situation.
last week, i got in a pretty nasty fight with my gf. the next night (thursday) i go out with some friends and end up spending the night with this younger little hottie. didn't have sex, but made her squeal pretty good and she's called me like 4 times already.
i'm workin the not too available/mystery thing pretty good. new girl wants me like i said.
so i had plans to hang out with my gf sunday and saturday night i'm thinkin i'm gonna see how it goes (cuz we were fighting) and maybe i might break up with her because i want to pursue things with this new girl. totally didn't happen, and we were getting along great (figures). i spent most of the day in bed with her, and i stalled on doing anything about the situation.
at my core, i want to pursue things with this new girl, but i dont want that to mean i am closing the door forever with my gf. because a month from now, i might totally want her back. but i know this is tough to pull off, and i know a lot of you are gonna tell me i'm a bad person for doing this to my gf.
i've thought about telling her the truth, that i want to see other people, but that doesn't mean i have stopped liking her. but i dont want to hurt her feelings, and i'm sure that probably will.
i need to just grow a pair and make a decision, but it's easier said than done.
i'm not married, and i want to sex as many girls as possible before i do settle down, but i DO like my gf alot too. sticky situation.