Have a big heart...

[I-am-someone]

Very simple...

Love everybody in your world. Love women. Love men. Love your family. Love your friends. Pay attention to everyone, take care of them if needed, do whatever you need to.
I know this may sound like a strange thing because "people might take advantage of you" or "you might supplicate". They won't. Because if you love them, all they can do is run the risk of losing your love. If they betray you, they will lose something.

Too many people think that love is an exclusive thing. That it should always only be 1 person to 1 person. Instead, love should be something you carry for everybody in your world.

Give everybody what they need, and live your life with the greatest power of all.

 

[John_Galt]

I don't like that advice. Love should be in moderation, just like hate.

 

[AllAmericanGuy]

Whether in business or in your personal life, its always good to treat people well. In the end, it always comes back to benefit you, but you must remember while doing this that you are always going to be #1.

If someone ****s with you, hurt them, hurt them bad, or your respect will be diminished, and people will start walking all over you, and you will start to think less of yourself(most detrimental).

You are only responsbile for yourself in this life.

 

[FurryFriend]

Worst advice I've read on this forum. It's the kind of stuff that comes out of a fortune cookie and has no relevance in the real world.

 

[jimmyjack]

Bull sh**t how can you love everybody in the world,well i will say love who loves you.Please stop talking bull sh**t in this forum if you don't have any thing better to say just f**k off and don't come back to this site we want to learn from your experience try to say something resonable that makes sense.what are you here for to tell us bullsh**t.look you have to give and take not take and not giving back.

 

[Holland]

This is good advice.

Too bad most people don't understand the value of it.
It probably won't work for an AFC, since he's waaaay to approval seeking, but once you've become quite the 'Don Juan', most people will like your charm and approval and work for more of it.

Of course you have angry people, but who cares about them?
Just ignore and laugh at them.

Bull sh**t how can you love everybody in the world,well i will say love who loves you.

Talk about RE-ACTIVE.

Oow, and please refer to yourself with a capital I. It shows low self-esteem.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

Good thread

another piece of advice I can add is to:

Give without expecting something in return!


most nice guys give because they want something (attention, approval, love, sex) in return.
when u give because u want to give, and not to get something in return, you give off a positive energy with no neediness. makes u feel good too

 

[BadAssMoFo]

this is one of the best posts i've read on this website.

for those of you who knock it..why do you think it's bullshi*?


How can you ever expect to attract psychologically healthy women if you don't have the courage to open your heart to new people?

those who manipulate, hurt, and play little games...is THAT the kind of person you want to be?

you think it's noble to get your coc* sucked by a hottie because you fuc*ed with her head?




I see posts all the time talking about being a "real man"...i started one myself, actually..but, with many of the responses to THIS post, i'm starting to realize that real men truly are rare.

Loving everyone does not entail going out of your way to ease someone's life along...loving everyone is a mindset...it's your fuc*ing reality.


A loving mindset is one of strength, courage, and inspiration...it is seeing past the facades people put up, and focusing on the good that EVERY SINGLE HUMAN BEING is capable of.


However, as some others have said before me, it's also about loving yourself..and as a rule..you must love yourself before you can love others.

if you don't respect yourself, you will let others walk all over you..and, will be doing no one any good.

so, love yourself first, and don't ever let fear, jealousy, envy, (or any other dangerous thing), affect your dealings with others.

all people have the capacity for goodness...yes..even now..in this paranoid, delusional, and psychologically self-diagnosed time.

But, if someone tries to hurt you...and i mean HURT you...not something unintentional, (which should be corrected but not punished too severely), remember to defend yourself proportionately

 

[Doggystyle]

Been reading the Greatest Saleman in the World by og mandino by any chance? 2nd scroll

 

[Styles]

Nice post.

I especially like how loving without the fear of supplicating.

And if someone betrays your love, then the loose something good.

 

[Full Throttle]

Awww, have a big heart. How cute. Love everybody. Sorry but that's chump talk.

 

[Styles]

^^^
Shutup.