"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wishyo

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Been a big fan of baseball flat brimmed hats, but recently found a lot of hate comments about them as wearing these hats is associated with douchebags, rappers, ghetto and so on.
I never really cared about love\hate opinions related to them until one of my favorite bloggers posted this
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/gselevator/what-makes-a-douchebag-a-_b_6693202.html

So what do you guys think about them? How do you wear them if u do, what types of hates you own.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I own hates for these hats.

They are for boys looking for hoodrats. Even the sufer style ones are weak to wear anywhere but the beach or around a bonfire.
 

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Depends on how you wear the cap & the place you wear it too. Would you say beanies and skullcaps are only reserved for skaters?

I follow fashion too so I'm aware of the stigma around them. It depends on your overall look & personality as well. You should only be wearing flat brimmed hats if your dressing urban styled . (Sneakers, urban jackets, etc.)

Never mix match styles, ex: Business casual/Urban casual/classic

IMO flat brimmed caps are fine depending on the setting and the rest of the fit. I also bend my flat brimmed caps to make them curved.
 

old_skoolr

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Question OP:

Why do you care about the thoughts of your favorite blogger??

Who cares about what he thinks a douche is??

I like wearing baseball hats, hell I wear em backward when I feel like my hair isn't how I like it. I honestly couldn't care less what people have to say or the general perception is and you shouldnt either.

Can we close the thread at this?
 

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SmooveMooves said:
Depends on how you wear the cap & the place you wear it too. Would you say beanies and skullcaps are only reserved for skaters?

I follow fashion too so I'm aware of the stigma around them. It depends on your overall look & personality as well. You should only be wearing flat brimmed hats if your dressing urban styled . (Sneakers, urban jackets, etc.)

Never mix match styles, ex: Business casual/Urban casual/classic

IMO flat brimmed caps are fine depending on the setting and the rest of the fit. I also bend my flat brimmed caps to make them curved.
It does have a ghetto element purely because lot of guys from these areas wear them. But a quality hat which goes well with the rest of the attire is fine. It goes well with anything casual really but not with formal stuff like a suit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ye, I think so too. It all comes to the way you wear it and yes, how well it fits with the rest of the attire.
"feel the difference":
http://tinyurl.com/qfj363e
http://tinyurl.com/lqlej6b for chicks
http://tinyurl.com/l8jytrd =>> not the worst case, but dudes like this make people hate all brim hats
http://tinyurl.com/kj23v56 another case, not the worst case scenario
http://tinyurl.com/myk8q63 lol
caps differ hella lot too. i.e:
http://tinyurl.com/qxeoqq2 similar to the type I have been wearing lately.
http://tinyurl.com/nuqtudv goes with this coat pretty well imo
 

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^ Good links. From above, this is what you see most guys sport and its utter rubbish:
https://www.google.ru/search?q=flat...erd%2Fthings-black-people-wear-i-cant;200;200

https://www.google.ru/search?q=flat...gheart.com%2F2013%2F05%2F26%2F2358%2F;267;295

Below however is good and no one should not step out of the house to go chasing women unless they look like this as a bare minimum. Without dressing like this, cold approaching hot chicks will result in rejection galore.
http://www.google.ru/imgres?imgurl=...YiSBILxaMKmgJgM&tbm=isch&ved=0CE0QMyhFMEU4yAE
 
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