"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haters? Or something else?

Wanderer*

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I was at the gym today and noticed a guy looking at me similar to the way a guy would look at a geek (sort of tiny smile type of way)....then his mate noticed and then looked at him and like shakes his head and says "don't...".
Wtf is this ****? Ive been going to the gym for a while now and ive put on a bit of mass, and i have chicks hitting on me when i go out (my friends all say that i am hot). So what's going on here? I know i probably shouldn't care, but i can't.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ChrizZ

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Maybe he wanted to rape you in the bathroom?:eek:
 
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