haters and their jealousy

[YoungJuan]

Hey guys, first off, I want to start out by saying that I am a "perfectionist". Like we preach here, I don't settle for anything less than the best (for me). For instance, whether it has to do with academics, social scene, to fashion... I don't miss out. Thus, I end up usually being very successful; however, I do not flaunt my success nor act like I'm the greatest thing that has ever walked.

So far, things seem great (and usually it is) but there are some people who can't accept me for who I am. For instance, there are some kids I don't hang out with AT ALL, and I am never an ******* to them, BUT for some god damn unknown reason, they instigate EVERYTHING I do and bring it up to others to try and bring me down (i ask for what? why do you do that? I don't even know you...). I feel like i'm being watched by them constantly. Why is that? What is it about those people that they have too much time in their hands to worry about me so much, when I don't even give two ****s about what they do. The only thing I can come up with is jealousy. Idk though, I still don't know what motivates those kids to become "haters" in my eyes. Your insight would be helpful. Thanx- young Juan.

 

[i am me]

u said u dont care so jus forget about em. everyone has haters, i dont give a **** about them tho. if they talk to u, try to be nice to em unless they say somethin disrespectful then u can talk trash to em

 

[playboy_supreme]

if you have haters your doing something rite. people will always hate. and yes your rite its jelousy. they want what you have, they cant get it so they try to make what you have less valuable in everyone elses eyes.

im a very good dancer in clubs and i get hated on by alot of guys. but what do i care. they guys who hate look stupid and i dance with all the girls. woman can see haters aswell they are used to it all there lives. and as far as im aware a guy who hates is not attractive.

the best thing to do is ignore them. dont waste your time worrying why they hate.

 

[Trapper]

since you are doing a good job, that is the inevitable..what you should do is simple, ignore them.. ignorance is bliss.. it does work always.. dont let it worry you..keep up with good work..