"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Hate my city, any suggestions
- Thread starter CJE666
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PlayHer Man
Banned
Good Weather?
Good girl to guy ratio?
Diversity?
Lots of night life?
Beaches?
Great food?
Busy vs. chill?
Figure out what you want and do your research accordingly.
BadNews
Senior Don Juan
In all seriousness Vancouver is an awesome city...you probably just need to get out more bud. (no I'm not asian, I'm white)
That being said, I live in Calgary...and honestly can't see myself living anywhere else. MAYBE Australia...maybe. Calgary is an incredible city with tons of opportunity as far as career, women, lifestyle choices.
Edit: I wouldn't classify Calgary as a "laid back" environment. Not sure exactly why you mean by that phrasing, but the city is pretty go go go, with tons of energy. The people are pretty friendly and not too stuck up if that's what you're referring to. I lived in Victoria for a year, and think it may be closer to what you're looking for? Less asians...pretty laid back environment in all aspects - and it's only a ferry ride away for you making it an easily viable option.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Yeah I got one for you. Don't come to Toronto. It isn't any better here.CJE666 said: