"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Hate my city, any suggestions
- Thread starter CJE666
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PlayHer Man
Banned
Good Weather?
Good girl to guy ratio?
Diversity?
Lots of night life?
Beaches?
Great food?
Busy vs. chill?
Figure out what you want and do your research accordingly.
BadNews
Senior Don Juan
In all seriousness Vancouver is an awesome city...you probably just need to get out more bud. (no I'm not asian, I'm white)
That being said, I live in Calgary...and honestly can't see myself living anywhere else. MAYBE Australia...maybe. Calgary is an incredible city with tons of opportunity as far as career, women, lifestyle choices.
Edit: I wouldn't classify Calgary as a "laid back" environment. Not sure exactly why you mean by that phrasing, but the city is pretty go go go, with tons of energy. The people are pretty friendly and not too stuck up if that's what you're referring to. I lived in Victoria for a year, and think it may be closer to what you're looking for? Less asians...pretty laid back environment in all aspects - and it's only a ferry ride away for you making it an easily viable option.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Yeah I got one for you. Don't come to Toronto. It isn't any better here.CJE666 said: