"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hate getting oneitis

El Don

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I met this girl on periscope who seemed pretty cool. I've seen many of her scopes and she gave me her number after a while. I have never met her, but she lives about an hour or so away. She has mentioned going out if I can ever make it over there. She has sent me pics, flirts all the time and told me stuff shes wanted me to do to her, but when I tell her I might be in the area she seems very flaky like many girls. I have only told her twice when I've been in the area and she doesn't seem eager to meet.

I just hate feeling played like that. I guess I thought I had it in the bag with the way our conversations would go, but it seems to just be for attention or something. I got my hopes up and it's just frustrating that I should have just not cared and been worried about meeting other people. What a terrible feeling.

It's been tough for me to go out and just meet lots of women. Many of my friends are married/tied down, and I have a bad tendency of just kind of living in my own little social circle consisting of people from work or close friends. I usually only meet women through friends of friends, or through work. This causes me to just focus on one girl or 2 who catches my eye and then eventually I start liking them more than I should. Sorry this has been beta and more of a rant, but I don't have many people I can just talk to about things like this. Thanks for reading!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ColdCore

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Yeah man been there with a few. This one woman I am about to next would do similar stuff. Flirt send pics. After she brushed off an invite.
I stopped contacting her. Now she randomly texts me asking if I am upset and why I am not talking to her.
Fvck dem hoes.
 
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