iroctransam
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Whats going on Fellas? New on here, reading a for bit though.
Anyhow...looking for advice. I have gotten the women's advice and now looking for advice from my fellow gender ha.
I am in the middle of a separation from my wife, been separated for about 2 years now. I started getting back into the dating game about 8 months ago or such. I haven't dated in about 7 years(been with the same chick for a while).
Well after talking to several women and having relations, I started talking to one that is in the exact same situation as me. She has a daughter(I do as well)and getting divorced. I teach the newbs for my place of employment in the city and she was in my class.
So after her excessive flirting in the 8 hour class, break and after. We went our separate ways. Later on I ran into her during a run at her store. We chatted and she told me to request her on Facebook(I know I know). A few days later she messaged me and we talked(no flirting)for a bit. I simply said "Hey this messenger stuff is a pain, text me instead". She replyed with "I don't have your # dork or I would". So of course I did and we texted for a while.
Well now we have gone out a few times, she even went to to drag race track with me to watch and it was her idea! Every single time, we hold hands, make out, talk for hours on end and forget that what time it is. Always good convo and never boring as we are both laughing and talking the whole time with NO SILENT moments at ALL.
A couple of weeks ago, we were talking on the phone(no text :rockon: ) and she asked me what my thoughts on the differences of "dating" and "seeing each other" was? I answered and she said "love that answer!"
I proceeded to ask what are we doing? Are we seeing each other? She then said "well...I wanna say Maybe but deff leaning towards Yes! I told her no rush as I know her situation and mine as well.
Well she works about 55+ hours a week and then works for us on the weekends about 15 hours. So that's a lot of hours to work plus her daughter time.
I saw her 1 times since she told me "maybe leaning towards yes" for about 20 mins after work one day and that was a week and a half ago.
I haven't seen her since, we talk every day though. She will text me at 6am to say "good Morning!!!" and such. Lately it's slowed down a bit, but if I text she'll go on and on. I ask her to go hangout but she's too tired or is picking up her daughter after work(nothing wrong with that).
I understand she works about 75 hours a week currently but damn...how busy are you not to get about a 30 minute break for a guy she "likes a lot"?
I have played the game and not texted her and when I do it's short and to the point. It seemed to work a bit. I went out monday and didn't text all morning then she told me "Good afternoon party animal!!!". "Hey, good afternoon girly". "You hungover?" Me "Nope, I'm good". Her "Why not?" Me "I rarely get hungover". I stayed out only to 11pm, drank 3 beers. I kept it short and make her wonder. My best gal friend said that she is asking by being humorous but wants to be in the GF position without saying it that way. Not sure how accurate that is.
This is a girl that just last week said when I asked her "are you my girl lol well if you want to be" she replied "I don't mind and I am".
Pretty confusing fellas. I am talking to other girls, going out and such but this is one I actually do like. Any advice for me? Been out of the dating game for a while. She said leaning towards yes but I'm leaning towards :box: lol
Info-I'm 32 and she's 26(same age as my "wife"). Both of us have a daughter and she even talked about next year going on a car rally.
Thanks again and sorry for the LOOOOONG intro.
Anyhow...looking for advice. I have gotten the women's advice and now looking for advice from my fellow gender ha.
I am in the middle of a separation from my wife, been separated for about 2 years now. I started getting back into the dating game about 8 months ago or such. I haven't dated in about 7 years(been with the same chick for a while).
Well after talking to several women and having relations, I started talking to one that is in the exact same situation as me. She has a daughter(I do as well)and getting divorced. I teach the newbs for my place of employment in the city and she was in my class.
So after her excessive flirting in the 8 hour class, break and after. We went our separate ways. Later on I ran into her during a run at her store. We chatted and she told me to request her on Facebook(I know I know). A few days later she messaged me and we talked(no flirting)for a bit. I simply said "Hey this messenger stuff is a pain, text me instead". She replyed with "I don't have your # dork or I would". So of course I did and we texted for a while.
Well now we have gone out a few times, she even went to to drag race track with me to watch and it was her idea! Every single time, we hold hands, make out, talk for hours on end and forget that what time it is. Always good convo and never boring as we are both laughing and talking the whole time with NO SILENT moments at ALL.
A couple of weeks ago, we were talking on the phone(no text :rockon: ) and she asked me what my thoughts on the differences of "dating" and "seeing each other" was? I answered and she said "love that answer!"
I proceeded to ask what are we doing? Are we seeing each other? She then said "well...I wanna say Maybe but deff leaning towards Yes! I told her no rush as I know her situation and mine as well.
Well she works about 55+ hours a week and then works for us on the weekends about 15 hours. So that's a lot of hours to work plus her daughter time.
I saw her 1 times since she told me "maybe leaning towards yes" for about 20 mins after work one day and that was a week and a half ago.
I haven't seen her since, we talk every day though. She will text me at 6am to say "good Morning!!!" and such. Lately it's slowed down a bit, but if I text she'll go on and on. I ask her to go hangout but she's too tired or is picking up her daughter after work(nothing wrong with that).
I understand she works about 75 hours a week currently but damn...how busy are you not to get about a 30 minute break for a guy she "likes a lot"?
I have played the game and not texted her and when I do it's short and to the point. It seemed to work a bit. I went out monday and didn't text all morning then she told me "Good afternoon party animal!!!". "Hey, good afternoon girly". "You hungover?" Me "Nope, I'm good". Her "Why not?" Me "I rarely get hungover". I stayed out only to 11pm, drank 3 beers. I kept it short and make her wonder. My best gal friend said that she is asking by being humorous but wants to be in the GF position without saying it that way. Not sure how accurate that is.
This is a girl that just last week said when I asked her "are you my girl lol well if you want to be" she replied "I don't mind and I am".
Pretty confusing fellas. I am talking to other girls, going out and such but this is one I actually do like. Any advice for me? Been out of the dating game for a while. She said leaning towards yes but I'm leaning towards :box: lol
Info-I'm 32 and she's 26(same age as my "wife"). Both of us have a daughter and she even talked about next year going on a car rally.
Thanks again and sorry for the LOOOOONG intro.