"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hat kind of tests do yuou give women?

DJnoob

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They test us all the time, but I would like to hear you you DJs test them!

Me: I would throw a neg hit or ask them a question like

Would you rather have psychich powers or be able to read the minds of others?

If she picks "be able to read the minds of other" wouldnt that mean she is insecure?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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psychich powers or be able to read the minds of others?
isnt that the same gotdamn thing?
 

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yueah haha,.. their so dumb.. they would normally pick the 2nd option
 

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blood tests make sure they aint carryin teh aids.

edit - ahha i already replied to this thread and didnt realize it -_-
 

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-Asking about her family
-look for the presence of siblings, especially younger ones.
-look for healthy parent relationships + a lenient/submissive wife
-pets usually don't mean much

-Education

-Ask her what her future ambitions are. This reveals a ton about the mindset of a woman. Their answers ALWAYS differ tremendously.

-Ask her what her interests are. Not only do you find out if she is compatible, but you can uncover a lot about the personality of a person through their hobbies.

-One that doesn't require any kind of confrontation - watch how she eats her food...does she enjoy it, eat neatly, use her right/left hand, chew silently?

-How does she carry herself? Is she out of it, alert, relaxed, infused into the scenery/people around her, always with someone else?

-Most importantly - how does she treat other people? Does she seek approval, mistreat others, pay too much attention to inconsequential things, more/less superficial than with you?


There's a lot of subtle tests for the male, often not involving direct questions. Just pay attention to the behavior of your girl. By discerning the various aspects of her life, you can get a much better impression as to how the relationship will turn out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Very good Thread!!

You evaluate her attitude towards life
you test her rigorously whether she is worth giving your time and money or not or just f*cking material for one night. (most of them are)
Whether she would stand by you in your thick and thin?
whether she is after you or your money (if you have good job and business)
How does she treats others.
What are opinions about men? (does she think, men are generally "dog", manipulators and most of them use the women ?) if she has this thinking she would never respect you.
Is she respect ful to you.
Is she respectful to your parents and friends
Does she take care of your feelings
Does she build your ego or just drags you down?
Is she fun to be with or just a whinning b!tch?
Is she loyal or sexual promiscous b!tch?


I think i will keep on writing i can write one or more page.
Just keep on meditating that you must must test women and if you would become aware what personality traits you should test, you would discover "how" to test it?

All the experienced DJs should also share that how did they test all the women they had relationship with and what is their advice.

thanks in advance

yours
Tuffy
 

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No need

I just do my thing and observe. Her actions or omissions tell me all I need to know.
 

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Reading minds (telepathy) is a kind of psychic power, you need to be more specific, like telekinesis (psychokinesis), which is moving things with your mind, versus telepathy or empathy (as a whole, telempathic) abilities.
 
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