frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Are you better off since the day you found this site?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Has this site helped you?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
of course
jakethasnake
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 13, 2001
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Yes, but the changes have been so slow yet constant, that it is pretty much imperceptible. Basically, I think the site made me AWARE of all the problems I had, and all the improving was done completely on my part. In the regard, I have nothing to owe this site. However, I do credit it with "waking me up" - perhaps the most important step. 
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
In the particulars of dating and attraction there are to many people contradicting eachother/ no consensus but it has helped me get over the fear of rejection and just given me all around more confidence. It's gotten me off my feet and into the game.
alnite
Don Juan
Yes, but still need to focus more on seducing women instead of talking about life.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Senior Don Juan
this site has opened my eyes. that's probably a good thing.
91redrotary
Don Juan
I definetly agree.
I've been here for over 2 years now, yeah the site has totally changed the way I see women, I've had some real success which has been great. For me the next step is to get over what fear of rejection I still have and move onto the 'next level', if y'know what I mean.
Health & Fitness section has also been useful, my fitness levels have risen loads since I first found this site.
Health & Fitness section has also been useful, my fitness levels have risen loads since I first found this site.
The TallOne
Don Juan
It has opened my eyes..
Everything else that has helped me, is real world experience.
You can sit here, analyzing every thread, every post etc.
But that won't help worth a damn, if you can't go out and practice it.
Everything else that has helped me, is real world experience.
You can sit here, analyzing every thread, every post etc.
But that won't help worth a damn, if you can't go out and practice it.
This site has helped me immensely...My perspective and attitude towards women is the complete opposite of what it was before I came here. I've gone from being completely, 100% unsuccesful with women to being the guy all my friends ask for advice. As pathetic as it might seem to say, I consider finding this site a major turning point in my life.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
I remember at one point having all these dj skills but not really knowing i did cus it wasn't in writing, this was when i was 16.......then come 17 some girl who i never even kissed broke my heart and left me in a deep depression for years and into college (that particular incident just set off a chain reaction of awful events that left me desperate and lonely etc.).....i went in and out of depression and but developed bad anxiety (social) during this time but until recently with the info presented to me in writing of stuff i once knew but couldn't defend.........i am now motivated to change my life and fight until the day i die, thanks sosuave.......sorry to vent but i just wanted people to know where i am coming from
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
hmm, inspirational thefonz!
sosuave also helped me get back on my feet after i got horridly dumped by my ex oneitis for some stupid minor excuse that i cant even remember now. pah.
i could never accept the breakup, particularly because it was for a very dumb reason, and i just lived my days in painful memories of "old times" that were never to be again
hell, but in the end, after lots of posts and ranting and reading, i finally accepted that it was over, there was no way we would be like before, and if we ever got back together, she'd just find some other excuse to dump me when she got bored again.
instead i used the information here to further improve myself and "dj skills", there are many other better fishes in the sea!!!
thanks sosuave.
sosuave also helped me get back on my feet after i got horridly dumped by my ex oneitis for some stupid minor excuse that i cant even remember now. pah.
i could never accept the breakup, particularly because it was for a very dumb reason, and i just lived my days in painful memories of "old times" that were never to be again
hell, but in the end, after lots of posts and ranting and reading, i finally accepted that it was over, there was no way we would be like before, and if we ever got back together, she'd just find some other excuse to dump me when she got bored again.
instead i used the information here to further improve myself and "dj skills", there are many other better fishes in the sea!!!
thanks sosuave.