"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Has this happened to anyone else?

cyjay201

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I look around my school, and there are no girls that I'm interested in. Period. Sure there are a few girls that are hitting on me lately, and they're pretty cute, but I'm just not interested.

Last year I would have been all for just going out and messing around with them, now it seems my attitude and mentality has changed.

Anyone else ever experience this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CapiCrimini

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Yes. The girls themselves are not hot, not because there not hot, but Just your not intrested in them.

Is that what you mean? Its a tounge twister but it's the only way i could think to explain it.

Yeah i've had this happen. A lot of DJ's in HS have had this happen. Once you have the choice to choice, rather then be choosen, your mindset changes.

Look Into Anti-Dumps Machine. You might find it useful.

Anyone else notice the board is really slow right now?
 

Knockout

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Hey same things happening with me rite now. I guess im just gonna make the best out of what ive got cuz it wud be dumb to just have that stop you from getting ur game on at skool!
 

LikRetsam

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Yes all the time. All of them after you but you couldn't care less about them.

Been there for awhile.
 
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