"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Has this happened to any1

cyjay201

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I used to have oneitis for this girl last year. I was a total chump. She LJBF me, thank god I found this site. I took this sites advice and nexted her. Didn't try to talk to her, havent done anything to further a friend type relationship. Well this year she's in one of my other classes, I've had some success with other women and have totally forgotten about her.

She's the type of girl that gets constant attention from guys, and even when she rejects them they still hang around just to be "friends" with her. Not me, and that's why I think I've been noticing some attitude changes in her. She's ALWAYS looking at me. It pisses me off. Always is laughing at the things I say, when at times aren't even funny. It doesn't matter tho b/c I dont have interest in her anymore.

The thing that got me the most was when she came up to me in class out of no where and said "you've changed"
I looked at her smiled and said "I know."

I just wanted to get some others thoughts on this.

Thanks guys.

cyjay
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oakraiderz2

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Pimp status...damn it feels good to be a gansta!! haha
 

ohiofutballa

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well shes feels a difference in you, but she seems like a huge attention *****
 

cyjay201

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Originally posted by ohiofutballa
well shes feels a difference in you, but she seems like a huge attention *****
Yeah, she is a major league attention *****. Doesn't get any more from me tho.
 
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