"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Has this ever happened...?

BlahBBlah

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Hey guys,

There is this one girl that I have really been trying to get with recently but found that she is seeing someone else. We were friends at first and then eventually started doing sexual activities together for a while until all of this started happening. During the time we were basically friends with benefits, I started to become more attached to her and really wanted her to be my girlfriend. Has anyone ever been in this situation and eventually got in a relationship with her? Suppose she stops seeing this guy after a while. Is there anything I can do to get her to be my girlfriend? I don't just want sex with her anymore. I told her that and expressed my feelings to her about it all but just responded that regardless of whether she is seeing the other guy or not, she never had serious feelings for me in the first place.

It's just really really really rare that I find a girl who is girlfriend material for me and I hate to lose that opportunity if I still even have it.

Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spider_007

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she is bonning two dudes and you call her g/f material.

ever wonder what that strange taste was when you ware kissing her.....it's the leftover nut that the other guy busted in her mouth few hours before
 
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