"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Has this ever happened...?

BlahBBlah

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Hey guys,

There is this one girl that I have really been trying to get with recently but found that she is seeing someone else. We were friends at first and then eventually started doing sexual activities together for a while until all of this started happening. During the time we were basically friends with benefits, I started to become more attached to her and really wanted her to be my girlfriend. Has anyone ever been in this situation and eventually got in a relationship with her? Suppose she stops seeing this guy after a while. Is there anything I can do to get her to be my girlfriend? I don't just want sex with her anymore. I told her that and expressed my feelings to her about it all but just responded that regardless of whether she is seeing the other guy or not, she never had serious feelings for me in the first place.

It's just really really really rare that I find a girl who is girlfriend material for me and I hate to lose that opportunity if I still even have it.

Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spider_007

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she is bonning two dudes and you call her g/f material.

ever wonder what that strange taste was when you ware kissing her.....it's the leftover nut that the other guy busted in her mouth few hours before
 
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