So last year, when I was 18, one girl from my university fell really hard for me and in 18 years I had only one girl and was focused on school and gaming mostly, I was just nice to her, because I am friendly towards people, she asked me out and I didnt want to turn her down instantly, but I knew that there cant be anything other than friendship and at the end of the night I told her that I am not attracted to her and I basically rejected her, but after that something happened that I didnt expect, she actually rejected my rejection, she told me no way, we are perfect together, you cant reject me, and it was really weird, and I was there sitting and laughing at her face, it was so stupid thing of me, when I think about it now i just cringe, do you have similar experiences?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Has this ever happened to you?
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