"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Has this ever happened to you?

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You next a girl, delete her number, and she calls/text you weeks later? By that time, you forgot about her and don't recognize the number?

I just played it off smoothly a few minutes ago. This girl I was interested in was telling me about her birthday weeks ago, and I tried to go out with her but of course she never committed to going out. So I delete her number.

I just got a text asking me if I'm still coming. I played it off cool an said "where at?". She says "my house starts at 10". So a little google searching on the area code, I tried to remember what girls I met from that state. Then she said "her house", I remember her birthday party was gonna be at her house.

I'm going for two reasons: there will be other girls there and more opportunity to practice my socialization skills.

I'm thinking about stopping to get some liquor so I won't go emptyhanded. I know that's good social etiquette (I'm not invited to parties that often).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yah. I'm an ass, I'll ask "who dis?" Then LOL my ass off when the get all indignant about me deleting them. If I cared what they thought they would still be in my phone wouldn't they? They always give me their name and if the convo goes well I'll save them, if not I won't.
 
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Hell yea!

It means she's probably after you, not vice versa. That's a good thing if that's the case.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have not had that happen, but I had a girl call me last night and I didn't know her name (i met her when I was wasted and didn't save her name in phone). haha. I just asked her what her name was, like it was perfectly normal. She didn't seem to care. I don't know whats going on with her though. Seems kind of needy.

I say just tell her you legitimately forgot about her, apologize, then move forward with it from there. I think she would appreciate the honesty and maybe think there's something special about you.
 
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Go. Dress well, smell good, head up, smile, speak seldomly... but with confidence and generalship. bring the booze as you planned, and even a gift. I prefer doing that, it shows class & that you have $$. Pick out a flirty HB friend at the party & flirt with her... then enjoy the competition.
 
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Joe Stud said:
and even a gift.
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a gift , WTF do u mean by this? a box of chocolates(lame), a rose(lame)? explain....

stand out by taking quality/classy/awsome alcohol (dont just be one of the many lame guys who take a pack of beer)
 
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kingsam said:
a gift , WTF do u mean by this? a box of chocolates(lame), a rose(lame)? explain....

stand out by taking quality/classy/awsome alcohol (dont just be one of the many lame guys who take a pack of beer)
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For the first sentence, Valentine's Day was last week.

For the second sentence, bring Hennessey, Patron, Grey Goose, Hpnotiq, or a combination of these. Extra points for Honey and Fruit Punch (Hawaiian Punch, Welch's, or similar.)
 
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kingsam said:
a gift , WTF do u mean by this? a box of chocolates(lame), a rose(lame)? explain....

stand out by taking quality/classy/awsome alcohol (dont just be one of the many lame guys who take a pack of beer)
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Do you think drunk people at a party really give two ****s or remember what you bring to the party?

When I go to a party I always just bring what I want to drink and make sure there's enough for me and some others. Don't worry about what you bring alcohol wise though, just worry about adding some fun to the party. Although that doesn't mean you should go without any alcohol. Bring pack of beer, liquor or whatever...don't think you're going to standout by wasting money on a bottle of "classy" liquor.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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IF, I don't know her,she may get a card,but thats about it. Just like weddings where they invite everyone in the state just for the gift-if I don't know them,I won't go, or send a card.
 
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a) he DOES know her b) If one attends (and eats/drinks/etc), he/she should bring a gift.
It shows class, and besides for a $10 gift you make her just a little beholden to you.
 
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This is a girl he barely talks too.

Him showing up at the party IS the gift. And he's bringing alcohol, so he's not coming empty handed. Everyone else will be bringing gifts. Let all the other guys be the AFC's that shower her with presents.

Hit up that party and flirt with EVERY girl you can EXCEPT her. Let HER approach YOU.

Remember, you deleted her number for a reason.

Go and have a GOOD time. No, scratch that, have a GREAT EFFING time.
 
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dito kailex
Hit up that party and flirt with EVERY girl you can EXCEPT her. Let HER approach YOU.

Remember, you deleted her number for a reason.

Go and have a GOOD time. No, scratch that, have a GREAT EFFING time.
Do u son LOL
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Joe Stud said:
Almost there? follow up? did you go/ Bring anything?
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Yeah, I went there...actually crashed at her house. All her friends were from out-of-state and left the next day. But I did some mackin' anyway.
 
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