"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Has this ever happened to anyone?

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So, I go out to the bar with my roommate and a bunch of friends. Now, one of the guys knows a bunch of women. So, I'm standing there minding my own business bull****ting with one of my friends. I put my cigarette out at one of the tables two of the girls are sitting at and out of nowhere one of the blondes just introduces herself and pretty much makes her way into my conversations no matter what. I mean this girl was so overfriendly with me that I was caught off guard. She was even lighting my cigarettes for me. I could tell she liked me for whatever reason. Well eventually I got so ****housed that I lost track (as usual) of what the hell was going on and lost almost everybody.

Well on the way home (my roommate drove some of us downtown) the girl calls my roommates phone and asks him what is wrong with me. Now I'm totally shocked to find out my roommate knows her and I've never met her. I started feeling creeped out by her actions but I liked her and she seemed cool and genuine and she's hot to boot.

Okay, my question is should I ask my roommate for her phone number or just not worry about and hopefully run into her and ask her myself? The whole time at the bar she was trying to get my number but I get really ****y and arrogant when I drink and pretty much screw myself over.

I kind of hate this situation though. Because it seems everything is going along great in my life and then a woman steps in throws my whole subconscious into a wreck as usual. Oh well, **** happens.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She wanted to cut.

If she's all over you sexual or not,you just gotta assume she wants something.
 
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go 4 it

I'd totally get her number from my room mate. No two ways about it. If she's as interested in you as you claim, and you're pretty good with phone conversations, then you really can't go wrong in this situation

Just try not to be drunk when you call her so you don't sound like a dumb*ss
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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