"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has this ever happened to anyone?

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So, I go out to the bar with my roommate and a bunch of friends. Now, one of the guys knows a bunch of women. So, I'm standing there minding my own business bull****ting with one of my friends. I put my cigarette out at one of the tables two of the girls are sitting at and out of nowhere one of the blondes just introduces herself and pretty much makes her way into my conversations no matter what. I mean this girl was so overfriendly with me that I was caught off guard. She was even lighting my cigarettes for me. I could tell she liked me for whatever reason. Well eventually I got so ****housed that I lost track (as usual) of what the hell was going on and lost almost everybody.

Well on the way home (my roommate drove some of us downtown) the girl calls my roommates phone and asks him what is wrong with me. Now I'm totally shocked to find out my roommate knows her and I've never met her. I started feeling creeped out by her actions but I liked her and she seemed cool and genuine and she's hot to boot.

Okay, my question is should I ask my roommate for her phone number or just not worry about and hopefully run into her and ask her myself? The whole time at the bar she was trying to get my number but I get really ****y and arrogant when I drink and pretty much screw myself over.

I kind of hate this situation though. Because it seems everything is going along great in my life and then a woman steps in throws my whole subconscious into a wreck as usual. Oh well, **** happens.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She wanted to cut.

If she's all over you sexual or not,you just gotta assume she wants something.
 
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go 4 it

I'd totally get her number from my room mate. No two ways about it. If she's as interested in you as you claim, and you're pretty good with phone conversations, then you really can't go wrong in this situation

Just try not to be drunk when you call her so you don't sound like a dumb*ss
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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