penkitten
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why are you reading celebrity news?
aren't there any real issues to read about?
aren't there any real issues to read about?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Has the world gone mad?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Luthor Rex
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This is such a good observation it could almost be it's own thread.ketostix said:
The word "creepy" is one of those shaming words that has a very wide range of what it could mean. I've been called creepy because I have a good memory. I'll remember little things sometimes others miss. At the same time, Charles Manson is creepy. A guy that follows a girl home an looks though her windows is creepy.
I really don't think that because I can remember odd details about something that happened 3 months ago that I should be put into the same category as serial killers and dangerous stalkers.
A lot of times what a woman means when she says something or someone is creepy what the woman means is that she is "getting unwanted attention" or "doesn't like it".
Part of what bothers me about this whole "creepy" business is how women will very forcefully over-react to things. But then, emotionally, they are still children so that would explain things.
Edit: I've also noticed that women with low self-esteem will think that men with strong personalities are "creepy" or dangerous.
picard
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there are enough of spineless men who bow to these Madonna type women.
This century is indeed gone mad. The world is full of emotionally unstable women.
This century is indeed gone mad. The world is full of emotionally unstable women.
Hooligan Harry
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And emotionally unstable men. Criticise Madonna all you want but Brad Pitt has been doing the same thing. Manginas and spineless wimps are as big a problem as the dimwitted women who recite Oprah parrot fashion and feminist scum who are too ugly to be dimwits.picard said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Older women and younger women. 18-22 and 29+
Women 23-28 are attractive physically, but when you come down to it, they're pretty dull. Their minds are on marriage, they're leveraging their looks to their advantage, they're more concerned with agendas than enjoying life, and they don't really take the time to develop personalities.
I find myself tragically unimpressed with women in my age-bracket. That's why lately I haven't even been dating...it's more fun to do something else. Even sex isn't enough of a reward to wade through the socialized bullsh!t that you have to tolerate to spend any real time with a "young woman".
The sad thing is that they're all kidding themselves. Each and every one of them. If you can get them to see this, you will be able to seduce any of them, any time.
But would you want to? As mentioned above, women 23-28 are no FUN. Stop thinking with your d!ck at the expense of your soul.
It's my goal to marry a 21 year old when I'm like, 32-35.
Women 23-28 are attractive physically, but when you come down to it, they're pretty dull. Their minds are on marriage, they're leveraging their looks to their advantage, they're more concerned with agendas than enjoying life, and they don't really take the time to develop personalities.
I find myself tragically unimpressed with women in my age-bracket. That's why lately I haven't even been dating...it's more fun to do something else. Even sex isn't enough of a reward to wade through the socialized bullsh!t that you have to tolerate to spend any real time with a "young woman".
The sad thing is that they're all kidding themselves. Each and every one of them. If you can get them to see this, you will be able to seduce any of them, any time.
But would you want to? As mentioned above, women 23-28 are no FUN. Stop thinking with your d!ck at the expense of your soul.
It's my goal to marry a 21 year old when I'm like, 32-35.
Hooligan Harry
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That has more to do with society then anything else. Go to Eastern Europe and women of any age group have interests and hobbies of their own. Women in the west watch TV, shop, spend all day with their "girls", party and ****. When they do have an interest outside that it is normally a way for them to meet men.
Society encourages Paris Hilton type behaviour. Its not natural. As they age and their looks fade they are forced to develop themselves a little more.