penkitten
Master Don Juan
why are you reading celebrity news?
aren't there any real issues to read about?
aren't there any real issues to read about?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This is such a good observation it could almost be it's own thread.ketostix said:BTW, the word "creepy" isn't in my vocabulary. It has no real meaning other than a vague label to shame and insult males.
And emotionally unstable men. Criticise Madonna all you want but Brad Pitt has been doing the same thing. Manginas and spineless wimps are as big a problem as the dimwitted women who recite Oprah parrot fashion and feminist scum who are too ugly to be dimwits.picard said:there are enough of spineless men who bow to these Madonna type women.
This century is indeed gone mad. The world is full of emotionally unstable women.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That has more to do with society then anything else. Go to Eastern Europe and women of any age group have interests and hobbies of their own. Women in the west watch TV, shop, spend all day with their "girls", party and ****. When they do have an interest outside that it is normally a way for them to meet men.But would you want to? As mentioned above, women 23-28 are no FUN. Stop thinking with your d!ck at the expense of your soul.