"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Has teh internets, ruined men's ability to pick up women?

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new_hotness said:
No offense, but you're way off the mark.

First of all, the guys who have no social skills at all (perhaps a quarter of all young males nowadays literally don't leave the house, aside from classes or work).

So the guys at the track are the more socially inclined guys. They're just having a hoot with a big tittied girl.

I actually think you are the one over-analyzing the situation and not understanding guys are flirting like normal horndogs rather than following the M3 model. Were you expecting negs or backturns? :) Now that would be weird.

Also, you have over 6,000 posts on this site alone. Do you classify yourself as a cool guy or a nerdy internet guy? :)
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know I had no problems until about the time cell phones, text messaging and facebook came.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I hear that a lot from my current girlfriend. I think the #1 rule regarding women with big boobs is to not stare at their t!ts.
Yes, I'm always the one who blinks first in those contests. It takes a long, time, though.:crazy:
 

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J. Darko said:
No. The internet is a gathering place for men who are already socially damaged. There they get comfortable in their own misery with each other and never get out of the black hole. Like Rollo Tomassi, who is 42 years old, calls himself a ''mature man'' but has over 4000 posts about his frustrations with women while he is a moderator on a forum that aims teach men to get rid of their Average Frustrated Chumpiness. When somebody calls him out on this he deletes the posts because he doesn't like what he reads, he doesn't like to be confronted with is own miserable reality and out of all people he's the one who gets to decide who is mature or not.

Mad world...
rollo is a man that has a successful marriage over a decade long.

u mad?
 

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J. Darko said:
No. The internet is a gathering place for men who are already socially damaged. There they get comfortable in their own misery with each other and never get out of the black hole.
That probably happens here more than people would like to admit. But for all of those who get comfortable some light a fire under thier asses and do something. I notice the same thing on my business forums, a lot more people sit around talking about a wanting business and trying to learn how to run a business and very few actually get up just do it. Most get stuck in an endless cycle of "I need to learn more" when its "I need to do more".




J. Darko said:
Like Rollo Tomassi, who is 42 years old, calls himself a ''mature man'' but has over 4000 posts about his frustrations with women while he is a moderator on a forum that aims teach men to get rid of their Average Frustrated Chumpiness. When somebody calls him out on this he deletes the posts because he doesn't like what he reads, he doesn't like to be confronted with is own miserable reality and out of all people he's the one who gets to decide who is mature or not.

Mad world...

I've had several disagreements with Rollo and he's never deleted my post. I have a lot of respect for the guy, and he's a good moderator. I don't agree with everything he says, but then who the hell agrees 100% with everyone? I guess AFCs haha.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I only delete posts from members who are still either too ignorant or too lazy to read the Mature Men's forum rules for posting.

Just doing my job.
 

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I should add that girls have reacted to me in the same way that guys reacted to your big tittied girlfriend. They will randomly take my picture, or buy me drinks or whatever.

When girls get nervous and horny, they act in exactly the same way. :)
 

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new_hotness said:
I should add that girls have reacted to me in the same way that guys reacted to your big tittied girlfriend. They will randomly take my picture, or buy me drinks or whatever.
Why? Do you have big tits too?

Sorry, couldn't resist.
 
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