"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Has super directness ever worked for you?

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Have you ever gone up to a girl (stranger or friend) and just be like "Hey, wanna ****?". And did it work? I was kinda toying with this.. with a girl I know. We talk on and off, and I was trying to see if I could make a **** buddy out of her. And we started throwing sexual inuendos around, and it seemed like she was just digging the directness and honesty. She said she didn't know about ****ing.. but would slap my patty. Lol, wtf do you think this means? I was just kinda like 'Well, I guess we're gonna have to work on that wont we". Does this stuff ever work for you? I think she wants it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's action time!
 

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A bum asks thousands of people a day for money and may make a few bucks from those who feel sorry for him.
 

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"Hey wanna fvck?!"

Way to make her feel like a woman and not a slut....
 

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NFC said:
Have you ever gone up to a girl (stranger or friend) and just be like "Hey, wanna ****?". And did it work? I was kinda toying with this.. with a girl I know. We talk on and off, and I was trying to see if I could make a **** buddy out of her. And we started throwing sexual inuendos around, and it seemed like she was just digging the directness and honesty. She said she didn't know about ****ing.. but would slap my patty. Lol, wtf do you think this means? I was just kinda like 'Well, I guess we're gonna have to work on that wont we". Does this stuff ever work for you? I think she wants it.

WTF!?!? Stop watching porn. That BS will only work if you're paying her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've seen it done.

On one occasion my mate introduced himself to a girl. His follow up sentence was "I'm horny."

Right infront of me, another one of the boys and two of her friends she said, "me too." They walked into the bushes and she gave him head.

On another occasion I was sitting in a friends car. A car pulled up across the road, the driver, a guy, jumped out and ran into a house. There was hot girl in the passanger seat. My friend said softly (only I was supposed to hear as it was a joke) "head job?"

The girl heard and laughed.

My mate asked "is he your bf?"

"no way."

"Come with us!"

She jumped out of her dates car, jumped in ours and we zoomed off. She had a good look at us. "How old are you guys?"

"26"

"28, and you?"

"18"

"****."

"Don't worry, I **** any age."

There are easy girls out there. If you are massively confident you can get em with minimal effort.
 

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Jay Jay said:
On one occasion my mate introduced himself to a girl. His follow up sentence was "I'm horny."

Right infront of me, another one of the boys and two of her friends she said, "me too." They walked into the bushes and she gave him head.

On another occasion I was sitting in a friends car. A car pulled up across the road, the driver, a guy, jumped out and ran into a house. There was hot girl in the passanger seat. My friend said softly (only I was supposed to hear as it was a joke) "head job?"

The girl heard and laughed.

My mate asked "is he your bf?"

"no way."

"Come with us!"

She jumped out of her dates car, jumped in ours and we zoomed off. She had a good look at us. "How old are you guys?"

"26"

"28, and you?"

"18"

"****."

"Don't worry, I **** any age."

There are easy girls out there. If you are massively confident you can get em with minimal effort.

I'd have to see that to believe it. If that's true, that girl's got some problems.
 

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A study was done on a university campus...

The process was an attractive man or woman would walk up to a person of the opposite sex and say "Hi I saw you around the campus and I just wanted to ask you..." followed by one of the three.

a) "Would you like to go out sometime?"
b) "Would you like to come back to my place?"
c) "Would you like to have sex?"

here's the results :

Men answered the women:
a) 50% Yes - 50% No
b) 70% Yes - 30% no
c) 98% Yes - 2% No

Women answered the men :
a) 50% yes - 50% No
b) 30% yes - 70% No
c) 98% NO - 2% Yes !!!

So, if you wanna ask 100 women if they wanna have sex, statistically, you'll have 1 or 2 that will say yes... I'd personally go for the 50/50 shot myself and work up from there.
 

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Frat brother tried the "Nice shoes, wanna f**k?" line at the house party, just going up to one girl after the other.

Slap,
Slap,
Slap,
Slap,
"Sure!"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So pimp its scary said:
A study was done on a university campus...

The process was an attractive man or woman would walk up to a person of the opposite sex and say "Hi I saw you around the campus and I just wanted to ask you..." followed by one of the three.

a) "Would you like to go out sometime?"
b) "Would you like to come back to my place?"
c) "Would you like to have sex?"

here's the results :

Men answered the women:
a) 50% Yes - 50% No
b) 70% Yes - 30% no
c) 98% Yes - 2% No

Women answered the men :
a) 50% yes - 50% No
b) 30% yes - 70% No
c) 98% NO - 2% Yes !!!

So, if you wanna ask 100 women if they wanna have sex, statistically, you'll have 1 or 2 that will say yes... I'd personally go for the 50/50 shot myself and work up from there.
I've heard this mentioned a few times....anyone have a link?
 

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So pimp its scary said:
A study was done on a university campus...

The process was an attractive man or woman would walk up to a person of the opposite sex and say "Hi I saw you around the campus and I just wanted to ask you..." followed by one of the three.

a) "Would you like to go out sometime?"
b) "Would you like to come back to my place?"
c) "Would you like to have sex?"

here's the results :

Men answered the women:
a) 50% Yes - 50% No
b) 70% Yes - 30% no
c) 98% Yes - 2% No

Women answered the men :
a) 50% yes - 50% No
b) 30% yes - 70% No
c) 98% NO - 2% Yes !!!

So, if you wanna ask 100 women if they wanna have sex, statistically, you'll have 1 or 2 that will say yes... I'd personally go for the 50/50 shot myself and work up from there.
Thats actually 32% !!
What did you think the 30% who answered yes to going back to his place thought he had in mind? :D
 

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if you do this and she says yes.

you might want to go ahead and chop of your ****..its going to burn for a while..and in a few yrs your T cell count might go down

:)
 

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I have been gaming this chick.. so it's not like I'm a complete stranger, I've known her for awhile. In the end she told me she wouldn't **** me anyway, but said she would slap my patty.. i think that means a hj... idk, i guess it's the next best thing
 

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Zero Hero said:
I've heard this mentioned a few times....anyone have a link?
I have heard about it too...but on the news....so I feel comfortable saying it is legit. Don't have a link though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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