"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Has sosuave helped you in other ways other than getting girls?

The Sperminator

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I was thinking about this early. When I started out I was a virgin never kissed a girl expect once for a dare lol. I was depressed and didn't care about anything and was really insecure and unconfident. But since coming on here my life has changed a lot. Not only did I start getting girls everything in my life improved. I was happier, more confident, did better in school, got way more friends, became more ambitious and started making goals and bettering myself. So thanks sosuave and everyone in here lol. I'm serious sosuave changed my life haha. Be honest did it change anyone elses? I would like to hear your stories if you have any.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PectoralisMajor

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yes,

it has taught me self improvement - that is if your wanting to self improve.

it should also teach you to look closely at a girls qualities rather than assuming she is great just because she looks hot. You get the idea...
 

The Sperminator

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Yeah before it was all about looks to me I used to like anyone hot now not at all I might see a hot chick and be like shes attractive but thats it, personality is so much better. I mean yeah I won't lie I would like my girl to be at least cute but personality counts so much more than looks. If you're hot and have no personality or you're dumb party chick then next. I don't think it's just sosuave that did that I think it just has to do with getting older and becoming more mature and realizing there are more to ppl than just looks. Honestly looks fade. Personality usually just gets better.
 

Rebound Material

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YES.

VERY MUCH SO.

As a former AFC, I can say that sosuave has taught me more than just "techniques" on how to get women. It has to me self-worth. Thats probably one of the most important if not the most important aspect to getting chicks: Self-Respect. If you don't respect yourself and let chicks(people in general) walk all over you/take advantage of you, then you sir....are a fcukin B!TCH. I dunno how many of you can relate, but some people here(Just a few) have taught me the true beauty of quality vs. quantity: An AFC will probably fcuk ANYTHING that gives him an IOI. A DJ will fcuk things when it passes his HIGH STANDARDS and not just cuz she's hot and wants him.

THE END.
 

Cashew

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For me SoSuave hasn't even really been about getting women at all. What I've really taken from it all is my own path to a constant self-improvement. In reading the articles and everything on the site, I felt that it brought a lot of things to the surface that I'd already known about but just not realized.

It hasn't turned my life around or anything, but it got me moving forward again when I was starting to slow down and settle with myself.

I made this realization after several weeks of perusing the website. I began to notice its effect in me and a went to my journal (yes, I keep a journal) and added the day that I first came to this site, after looking through my web history to see when exactly that was.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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