"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has social media changed the game forever?

playa99

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DISCUSS.

I will post my thoughts later on when I get a minute to myself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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VladPatton

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I think is has changed it for the time being, until some famous douche says it's now uncool. However...I do believe if you've got your shıt together that you can get a woman using nothing more than your mouth and your mind. You know, sort of, kinda like, how men did it in the 4,000 years prior to (anti)social media!

I'm pretty sure my dad didn't hit up my mom on facebook in the late 60's and ask for a date...and neither did yours.
 

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If by "change the game" you mean...."inflate girls egos"...then yes. Disgusting girls post pics and get validation from all her female friends. Hot chicks get 4 million likes on a picture and 3.5 million of them are beta chumps who havent the slightest sense of how to actually attract a woman.

Its not all negatives...it can give you social proof. I have girls that comment/write on my wall all the time and i know my plates see it. Also when you first start seeing a girl DO NOT FRIEND REQUEST HER...she will eventually request you if her interest is high enough(good barometer in my opinion). Im rarely on, and i never post statuses like chumps do every 5 mins. Its a mediocre tool to use for game AT BEST. I use it just to check up on friends every now and then.
 

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I avoid it to be honest. Whenever a girl asks about my facebook they are shocked and cant believe I dont have one. I suppose in this way social media has become part of a girls identity is used to pump their egos and organise parties. I mean why not have one if your a girl? No downsides.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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