"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Has So Suave gone stale? Behind the times?

Peaks&Valleys

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The411 said:
No it's been something I've suspected for a while now.

Peaks&Valley's join date on SS is:

Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Nowhere and everywhere
Age: 38


Zarky's join date:

Join Date: 04-13-2010
Age: 39
Location:SoCal



Both coincidentally joined in April. One (Zarky) has SoCal as his location the other (Peaks&Valleys) used to have NorCal as his location and now has changed it to "nowhere and everywhere" much like matching Zarky's tales of being a drifter...I remember calling that out a while back and now of course "NorCal" has been removed for a bit and it's "nowhere and everywhere".

Both are a year "apart" in age. Peaks I've noticed in threads of Zarky's has seemed to post in them several times.


Zarky&Valleys..I'm just sayin...odd coincidence.
You nailed it. Too much evidence for me to try and deny it.

Anyways, why don't you use your other username(s)?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Peaks&Valleys said:
You nailed it. Too much evidence for me to try and deny it.

Anyways, why don't you use your other username(s)?
Perhaps there isn't. Perhaps there is..Zarky's been known to move around and have different usernames..

I have used them. It shouldn't be a surprise to anyone who this is. I'm persistant. Some amusing characters on here. Some cool. It's the net. Topics of interest.

If others and the IRT can go on a free for all why hold the white man down? That's racist!
 

Peaks&Valleys

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The411 said:
I have used them. It shouldn't be a surprise to anyone who this is. I'm persistant.
I guess I just don't have the same investigative prowess as you.

If others and the IRT can go on a free for all why hold the white man down? That's racist!
Lost ya here.
 

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The411 said:
No it's been something I've suspected for a while now.

Peaks&Valley's join date on SS is:

Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Nowhere and everywhere
Age: 38


Zarky's join date:

Join Date: 04-13-2010
Age: 39
Location:SoCal



Both coincidentally joined in April. One (Zarky) has SoCal as his location the other (Peaks&Valleys) used to have NorCal as his location and now has changed it to "nowhere and everywhere" much like matching Zarky's tales of being a drifter...I remember calling that out a while back and now of course "NorCal" has been removed for a bit and it's "nowhere and everywhere".

Both are a year "apart" in age. Peaks I've noticed in threads of Zarky's has seemed to post in them several times.


Zarky&Valleys..I'm just sayin...odd coincidence.
NN, after your current username gets banned ("The411"), make your next handle "Sherlock Holmes" :crackup:
 
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