“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Has So Suave gone stale? Behind the times?

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Why are there only old articles on So Suave?

Shouldn't there be stickied newer posts or classic posts from the DJ Bible as articles instead for a more "updated" or better advice on the main part of the site?

What about a voice chatroom instead of wasting posts or having to type?

Girlschase has much, much better in depth articles and broken down scenarios on their main page. So Suave seems behind the times and isn't kept updated.


http://www.girlschase.com/categories
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The411 said:
Why are there only old articles on So Suave?

Shouldn't there be stickied newer posts or classic posts from the DJ Bible as articles instead for a more "updated" or better advice on the main part of the site?

What about a voice chatroom instead of wasting posts or having to type?

Girlschase has much, much better in depth articles and broken down scenarios on their main page. So Suave seems behind the times and isn't kept updated.


http://www.girlschase.com/categories
This forum has absolutely revolutionised my life. The advice I read in the archive is second to none. The advice from older members is amazing. Such as how to act, how to think, how to integrate the DJ lifestyle and making it unique. I don't see what you have to complain about.

If you had voice chat, what would that do? It's going to only decrease the value of information. You can't check back on what people say, sure it'd be a nice novelty feature but in the long run text is superior. Theres nothing like going back to threads and reading through, its like reading a book, you get varied opinions, you can decide what works best for you. It's not behind the times in any way.

it's like saying the NY Times is inferior to CNN, they're two different media, mutually exclusive, and the NY Times can go more in depth, as can someone with plenty of time to sit and write a post.

the Don Juan forum is great as it is, I wouldn't be against the features you propose, but also I wouldn't say it's absence is heartbreaking either. It would be nice to see some of the more experienced posters take DJ Bible posts and turn them into updated articles however - that sounds intriguing, maybe as you grow as a DJ, you could take that job upon yourself?
 
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Yes it has. Hasn't gone beyond
1) stop pedestalizing puss
2) spin plates
3) stop being a beta faggot

I'd like like to see some fresh ideas.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Yes it has. Hasn't gone beyond
1) stop pedestalizing puss
2) spin plates
3) stop being a beta faggot

I'd like like to see some fresh ideas.
Maybe when (if) you achieve those 3 basics :crackup:
 

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skinnyguy said:
Yes it has. Hasn't gone beyond
1) stop pedestalizing puss
2) spin plates
3) stop being a beta faggot

I'd like like to see some fresh ideas.
Skinnyguy, I love your stuff. seriously..you're the most entertaining beta faggot on this forum.

:moon:
 

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christoff522 said:
Skinnyguy, I love your stuff. seriously..you're the most entertaining beta faggot on this forum.

:moon:
Thank you. Luckily I don't care what people think.

I'm pretty content right now. I don't have a BPD girlfriend or a bloodsucking ex wife.

Most guys think I'm beta because I'm not having foursomes every night. But that is the epitome of pedestalizing - believing someone is more of a man because he gets women

I respect guys more if they aren't banging women all the time. That means they have high standards. People hate me because I have the highest standards on this forum.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Thank you. Luckily I don't care what people think.

I'm pretty content right now. I don't have a BPD girlfriend or a bloodsucking ex wife.

Most guys think I'm beta because I'm not having foursomes every night. But that is the epitome of pedestalizing - believing someone is more of a man because he gets women

I respect guys more if they aren't banging women all the time. That means they have high standards. People hate me because I have the highest standards on this forum.
Sure SkinnyJeans because all those chicks online are still putting in their profiles about how they "Don't want any Indian guys". :rolleyes:


I'm surprised So Suave with all the red-pill talk hasn't been updated to include Red pill articles. I'd guess because red-pill information has no interest in men who actually want to get chicks.

No new and or up to date topics, strategies etc.

Girlschase and Goodlookingloser seem much more with the times and getting chicks as far as comparing just the main parts of their sites. Whereas SS's main page seems stuck in the 90's.
 

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I like posts that are about being happy on your own. Enough of the "approach challenges" and such.

Girls chase is about getting women right? It seems that lonely desperate men would visit that site.

As for RSD, I have yet to hear of an example of Tyler Durden turning an ugly nerd into a DJ. He seems to have a 0% success rate with training men.

At the end of the day, the more you focus on getting laid, the more power women have. Is getting laid a nice thing? Sure it is. But a lot of guys are obsessed with it which leads to female entitlement. This is why I am against PUA trickery.
 

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I'm guessing you're talking about the main page at Sosuave.com. I don't think Allen's updated it in a long time, but it sure grabbed my attention when I was a stupidly heartbroken AFC.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Desdinova said:
I'm guessing you're talking about the main page at Sosuave.com. I don't think Allen's updated it in a long time, but it sure grabbed my attention when I was a stupidly heartbroken AFC.
Yep. The main page is pretty far behind.

I'd think there's a lot better articles or (5 star main threads as articles) that would be more up to the times as far as dudes searching for sites about chicks etc.

Perhaps even using sexual images/ chick pics, club pics, online dating advice (picture), chicks on the street etc. on the main page as well as more up to date articles for a more broad topic visual appeal than just the basic boring look.
 

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I like the "basic boring" look of it, I dont need some commercialized, sexualized distraction of a website. Just gimme the articles, gimme the forum, and thats it.

When you try and make it into this big thing you are just allowing people to distract themselves more and waste more time on the internet instead of going out and getting the experience, which is what its all about.

After you've read some pook and some anti-dump, you've basically got what you need. 90% of this is getting your ass out the door and learning, first hand. There isnt really all that much to say. And lets face it, a huge majority of these threads are totally useless, gives me a way to kill time at work basically.. argue with tîts about the decline of civilization.

To skinny about rsd, tyler was the biggest nerd loser ever! And now he has learned to be good with women. He is literally the perfect example to refute your argument. Not only do you refuse to take any responsibility for getting better with women, you have managed to convince yourself that its actually just because you have higher standards than anyone else. You are the most egotistical, defeatist person ever, stop posting on here and go talk to women.
 

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The411 said:
Sure SkinnyJeans
Did you have another username before this one 411?
 

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skinnyguy said:
Most guys think I'm beta because I'm not having foursomes every night.
Actually, we think you're a beta dude to the over emphasis that you place on your "flaws," and how your "flaws" are supposedly preventing you from pulling the snow bunnies. Your self doubt, feelings of unworthiness, and negativity is quintessential beta behavior.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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The411 said:
I've had a few Zarky.
So Zarky's another one of your usernames? Or is that your way of giving an insult?
 

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Seriously 411, go away. If you don't like the forum, just go away. Gee, if only you had chat, this site would be so much better, lol. Just someone trying to drive traffic to their site.

skinny, just go away then. Stop complaining, stop whining, stop being a tool. If you don't like the forum, go to that other metro page where they have all the stock photos, lol, now that is 90s. Gee, maybe you could pull some Melrose Place pictures for the site lol.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Thank you. Luckily I don't care what people think.

I'm pretty content right now. I don't have a BPD girlfriend or a bloodsucking ex wife.

Most guys think I'm beta because I'm not having foursomes every night. But that is the epitome of pedestalizing - believing someone is more of a man because he gets women

I respect guys more if they aren't banging women all the time. That means they have high standards. People hate me because I have the highest standards on this forum.
All I've seen you do is complain about this forum, and complain about women not wanting you because you're indian - That is pedestalizing! Instantly you put yourself in a position where no girl is going to want you, because you're reaking of "do not come near".

Hey, I may have a BPD ex, but that doesn't stop me going out and getting a girl. Anyway, today she sang me a song, about how she "doesn't want to lose [me] again".

I don't think anyone here believes a man is more of a man because he gets women. We believe a man is more of a man when he knows himself, when he's confident, when his life is on track, when he can provide for himself, SS is about making a better man - who can get girls, but that's not the epitome of manliness. You have this place all wrong. This place has health and fitness forums and wealth forums..its not all about the b'gina.

Your standards are lowest, when a guy is insecure he will convince himself he doesn't want girls because he believes he can't get them - it's a psychological defence mechanism.
 

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Although those articles might be old, the concepts to achieve success with women hasn't changed.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
So Zarky's another one of your usernames? Or is that your way of giving an insult?
No it's been something I've suspected for a while now.

Peaks&Valley's join date on SS is:

Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Nowhere and everywhere
Age: 38


Zarky's join date:

Join Date: 04-13-2010
Age: 39
Location:SoCal



Both coincidentally joined in April. One (Zarky) has SoCal as his location the other (Peaks&Valleys) used to have NorCal as his location and now has changed it to "nowhere and everywhere" much like matching Zarky's tales of being a drifter...I remember calling that out a while back and now of course "NorCal" has been removed for a bit and it's "nowhere and everywhere".

Both are a year "apart" in age. Peaks I've noticed in threads of Zarky's has seemed to post in them several times.


Zarky&Valleys..I'm just sayin...odd coincidence.
 
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