has she EVER come back?

[captain55]

The one girl who you dated who you made a total beta out of yourself towards the end of the relationship either by becoming needy and clingy....or even worse begging for her back.

You know in the back of your mind that there is nothing you could ever say, no amount of self improvement you could go through to ever get this woman to want you like she once did simply because she has no respect for you anymore.

Im not saying I begged for her back but I was a total douche to her. I don't want to be with this woman and wouldn't take her back, but it would definitely be a nice ego boost and reassuring if anyone had any stories of exes contacting them years down the road...who they thought for sure would NEVER come back. And if that woman did ever come back, did you even care at that point?

 

[logicallefty]

Yes!!

- I dated a woman in high school in 1991, got back with her in 2012 after a mutual friend invited us to the same event

- In my life I have dumped two girls that I later regretted. Well it just so happens that one I dumped a few years ago texted me yesterday totally out of the blue "Happy Thanksgiving". I haven't heard from her in over a year. She hinted like she wanted to see me again. I asked if she would like to get together, she said yes, and now we are going out in a few weeks.

 

[astrn]

nope I did not care. and you will be also...

you ll be the same position as the woman before like either you use them for your own ego boost or you simply dont care...

But i prefer dont care if they come back or even try to reach you or wants your attention etc... you ll be on the different road btw..

and dont forget, usually woman is the dealbreaker in relationships. if she really wants to be with you she will do it no matter what it is on their way. and usually you dont select the woman that you'll want to be. they'll select you...

 

[GS750]

This happened to me recently. I went on two dates with a chick I met on match last year. Had a good time together. Tried to set up a third and she ignored me. Texted her with no reply. I never went beta though...I just deleted the number. A few weeks ago I got a text from her...guess the guy she was seeing didn't work out and she went through her mental rolodex because she was lonely. I never replied. As far as someone I dated for a period of time? Haven't had one come back yet.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

This is not ego boost it is recycling of the trash.Even trash is useful sometimes.If she dump you in her mind you are trash.Remeber if she TRULY wanted to be with you she would try to solver issues no matter what,she would try to change you no matter,damn, she would even come back when you beged her.Some women stay with their men even if beaten,raped or abused.Maybe you were ******* ... but hey ... sometimes everybody is an *******.

The most funny thing is ... most guy incredible improve after breakup ... but women will never give you second chance because she already told to her family and friends you are a ****ing loser.So she can't take looser back, she would be looser herself until she out of options and must recycle through trash.

Move on.Life is a stream - you can't go back.

Even if she contacts you it doesn't mean anything, all this fluffy love is gone, it's maybe she feels lonely,maybe she needs you or maybe she feels guilty.It doesn't matter anymore.Do you want somebody back who thought you are a piece of trash which needs to be dumped ?

 

[mikey2012]

They only come back when you forgotten about them ....

"Swingers"

 

[astrn]

They only come back when you forgotten about them ....

"Swingers"

Exactly!

 

[Octogonal]

By the time she comes back you should have moved on to better things with vast improvement from your old self.