"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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has she already chosen? do i have a chance?

teachmedjs

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there's this girl (HB9) i'm interested in but i think i'm too late. she just became single lately but ever since, she's been attached to one of her friends where-ever her group of friends go. she just seems really happy in his prescence.

she laughs at the dumbest things he says. and they are really dumb. i admit i'm an afc, but the things he says to her even make me gag. but she finds it hiliarious. on top of that she's always suggesting that they go grocery shopping, or go studying together after class. one time, she was talking about buying ladyfingers (a type of ingredient) and someone joked, "is that a sex thing?" she laughed and said "oh, i can imagine _____ (her friend) awkwardly asking for them at the store". he's pretty much on her mind

my gut tells me she really likes him, so I'm wondering if I even have a chance. the only thing that leaves an opening, is that her friend is a complete nice guy. i asked one of my friends and she told me that he always drives her around, picks her up from the airport, goes grocery shopping with her, studies with her, etc. the thing is, he did this for over a year when the girl was in a long distance relationship, before she became single.

so, what should I do to try to get this girl? or has she pretty much picked the "nice guy"?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JPlaya

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Make a move, the first girl I went after had a guy friend and I thought they were going out, but I later found out they were friends. Kept me from making a move.
 

Chamber36

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I don't know what the chick is thinking. I assume the guy is a schmuck for driving her around and not getting any.

All you can do to try and get the girl is invite her over to watch a movie and give her some alcohol. If that isn't in your cards then I don't think you've got much of a chance.

She seems like a major attention ***** imho. Stringing guys along left and right...
 
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