"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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has it ever worked out for you in the long run i.e. relationship?

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after reading much information in the dj bible and on here, im wondering has anyone had success with a HB where she had a bit of interest in you then you got too keen and she didn't reply to your texts to meet up ('girls who are interested text back') and managed to not only sleep with her but actually had a decent relationship out of it despite the power imbalance (her not wanting you initially)?

has it ever worked out or was it just some sex and then she lost interest again?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yes, but as Carlos Xuma said, she'll never come back to someone she dumped if he didn't make a noticeable improvement in himself.
 
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but then I question why you would want her back if you are better men? I mean now you can get a better thing, why get the old thing back?
 
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Alvafe said:
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but then I question why you would want her back if you are better man? I mean now you can get a better thing, why get the old thing back?
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Well, in my case she was my dream girl, and still is. I couldn't find a better girl, I tried. I've never loved any girl half as much as I love her. I am thankful she inspired me to get in better shape.

The oddest part was last week when I asked her "Do you remember the time you told me you weren't interested in me anymore?" and she said "I never said that!!!"

I reminded her of the exact time and quote (last May) and she said "Oh, I was just saying that because I was mad at you about something..." (which she then explained in painstaking detail - a whole year later - and apologized).

It seemed like a really good sign that her knee-jerk response after 18 months of dating me was that she had no recollection of ever not being interested in me. So I then tried an experiment to see how a woman who I KNOW loves a man would respond to that question. I asked my mother "Mom, do you remember the time you said you weren't interested in (my Stepdad) anymore?" and she said "I never said that!!!". I said "Exactly".
 
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big weezy said:
after reading much information in the dj bible and on here, im wondering has anyone had success with a HB where she had a bit of interest in you then you got too keen and she didn't reply to your texts to meet up ('girls who are interested text back') and managed to not only sleep with her but actually had a decent relationship out of it despite the power imbalance (her not wanting you initially)?

has it ever worked out or was it just some sex and then she lost interest again?
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Yes....my ex wife....we met at a club and hooked up and she ignored almost all of my calls and texts for weeks and finally gave in and then became obsessed with me after we started dating regularly and proposed to me...wow that was a big mistake to say yes....what was once the girl of my dreams ended up becoming my worst nightmare...i couldn't get away from her fast enough at the end. She was beyond needy and controlling.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Varies for myself. I've turned down many girls and have had girls I've been interested in not work out, and I found it really depends who is after a relationship more and whether things are moving in your favor towards that or not.

I keep in mind now that relationships are transitory, conditional and transitional and that most are a product of our basic needs for certainty and security, and depending on your station in life, you are interested in that, or you are happy without it.
 
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big weezy said:
after reading much information in the dj bible and on here, im wondering has anyone had success with a HB where she had a bit of interest in you then you got too keen and she didn't reply to your texts to meet up ('girls who are interested text back') and managed to not only sleep with her but actually had a decent relationship out of it despite the power imbalance (her not wanting you initially)?

has it ever worked out or was it just some sex and then she lost interest again?
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Even if it does you only have a 50% chance....
 
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