Has changing locations made your results better or worse?

[Rolled Stones]

are you a complete ladies man and don juan in one location but in the other almost an incel?

I have friends that claim to struggle in one city but do amazing in another. Want to know what that's all about.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Yes, in my hometown, I couldn't catch sh!t. Women are truly fvcked up there. Sure, in high school I was fine, but in my adult life there it was slim pickins and I struggled mightily for years. Of course, I had no money then too so poor outta college and living with my parents off and on even in my early 20s. It helped me SAVE enough money to be able to jump ship to uncharted territory a 1000 miles away...THE BEST decision I've ever made in my life. Now I'm around healthy people, as well as healthy women (educated, liberal).

 

[corrector]

are you a complete ladies man and don juan in one location but in the other almost an incel?

I have friends that claim to struggle in one city but do amazing in another. Want to know what that's all about.

I don't know, but most people here feel if you live in Toronto, like I'll do, that you'll likely be incel.

 

[Dali_tx_o]

It could be a few factors causing the effect. I've had a chance to live/spend considerable amount of time in very different countries, and from my limited experience I'd say there's internal and external factors for your success in scoring women:

• Male to female ratio. You will find it a lot easier to hook up with a woman if there is relatively few men. Read http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/03/26/sausage-fest/
• Quality of women and men. A city full of beautiful women and chumps is a nirvana for men, while a city full of fat and sub-par women and a lot of high quality males is nirvana for women. You want to get be in the former.
• Culture and Social environment. A good example is Western Europe and Eastern Europe. Go to UK, and you can get a lot of chubby and easy to game sluts that will sleep with you quickly since they are all liberated and strong women with ****ty attitude. Go to Eastern Europe and you will find a lot of beautiful, feminine women that will not sleep with you as easily since the social shaming is still prevalent there, and being a slut is the worst thing perceivable to them. Being Blonde in Asia will give you an edge for looks. Being foreign will most often give you an advantage everywhere. Being black or gay will be a disadvantage in most Eastern European/Asian countries.
• Your history in the place/with locals. If you still live in your suburban hometown, and everyone still calls you "The kid who shat himself at fifth grade", you will find it a lot harder to score girls. If you're the guy who was the football team captain in school, later graduated from Ivy league university and came back to teach local kids, you will probably find it easier to score with girls.
• And, building on the previous, your internal state in the location. If you still struggle with you personal life, women and social situations, perhaps if you are introvert and have a history and a lot of friends, you may have a certain facade to maintain, and find it hard to hit on girls since you fear rejection etc, putting a mental restraint on certain actions. On the other hand, if you moved to a new place, and you will only stay there for a month, and probably won't see any of the locals ever again, it is a lot easier not to care what people think, thus freeing you to become more bold in your approaches.