"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has being flakey/acting uninterested ever backfired on you?

kingkong98

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In the summer i slept with this pretty hot chick one night and i did like her a bit but i didnt want to seem too into her so i didnt ask her to hangout again, she asked me to chill one day but i told her i had to work. After 2 weeks of not paying her much attention, she sent me a text saying that she really liked me but didnt like the games id play so she moved on. I know that youre not supposed to show a girl too much interest but im curious as to if youre supposed to show at least some interest.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Poonani Maker

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They do it to us all the time. Do we tell them, "hey, you're playing games, see ya wouldn't wanna be ay?" No. We claw and pry to get her to respond. Fvck her if she cuts you off. Her loss.
 

Aiken_Drum

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Well man, I think that as a man, you need to MOVE the relationship forward to what you want.

Did you want to avoid her for those 2 weeks, or you were trying to gain browny points and look "cool & attractive".

Cool and attractive it's a result of being a MAN, who goes after what he wants.
You tried to fake it (that is, if you wanted to actually see her).

Also, being uninterested is NOT cool. Being 100% interested isn't either.
THE KEY IS PUSH & PULL!

It's one of the KEY method of any DJ.
Check this article, its explains it quite clearly: http://www.seductiontuition.com/swinggcat/push-pull-examples.html

I've learned a lot of the push-pull from a girl that does it ALL the time!
She responded outstandingly to it BTW.
 

katatonia

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kingkong98 said:
she sent me a text saying that she really liked me but didnt like the games id play so she moved on.
What a crock of sh1t.

Keep playing games.
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