"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Has anyone worked for their family/ friends

Lion

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Does this cause tension in relationships? Is there a way to do it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My part time job is related to my father, even tho i never see him at work because I choose to work at night time instead of day time. Still, if there are any complaints coming in, I have to listen to them from my own father, wether its during dinner, a nice drive or if we are just chilling. It has lowered our releasionship. I will never work full time for a close family member. The main reason is this: If somebody doesn't show up he asks me to replace him first. I always say no because I know if I say yes once, I will be asked more often and expected to replace co workers. This puts our releasionship in a lose/lose situation, I'm just glad I never see him around the workplace. Thats my expierence.
 

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Thanks for your input Dedi, maybe you can talk about how you feel with your dad?

Is there anyone that can share experience having worked for their partners parents?
 

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Well, kind of related, but an ex-boyfriend of mine and I worked together... and it was great! I felt more comfortable at work and we never had any issues. I thought we might, because we had a relationship, but it actually worked out pretty well.

I also worked for the same security company my brother worked for and we never had any issues, even though he was my superior, and we still lived at home during that time.

Hope this helps!
 
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