El Payaso
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
They just want to stop sex completely or any normal male-female interactions within traditional gender roles over the last 1000's of years. There are some of them who are saying that sex is basically rape.Haven't seen it, but the trailer looks interesting.
Roober, false rape accusations, and even depicting regular consensual sex as rape, are men's rights issues. Feminists want men to stop and ask permission at every step, but we all know how well that goes over.
Feminists are saying that consent should be asked at every step because it goes back to the basic premise that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are two completely different things.They just want to stop sex completely or any normal male-female interactions within traditional gender roles over the last 1000's of years. There are some of them who are saying that sex is basically rape.
If you did have to ask for sex at each stage in the process, how much would that turn a female on? It would turn her off, this is why feminist know if they can get this to pass they have killed even more of the male population from sex.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It is available on digital streaming services like Google Play and iTunes: https://play.google.com/store/movies/details/The_Red_Pill?id=_mB13NV7rY0&hl=enIt hasn't shown up in my city yet (mainly because there's no CAFE branch here), but it was banned in Ottawa
http://equalitycanada.com/theredpill/
Its a hindsight thing for them. In hindsight if they enjoyed the sex, then it was Ok that you didn't ask. But if they didn't enjoy it, you were required to ask and if you didn't, now it's rape.Feminists are saying that consent should be asked at every step because it goes back to the basic premise that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are two completely different things.
Damn. If you don't like what people are saying, shut it down, I guess.It hasn't shown up in my city yet (mainly because there's no CAFE branch here), but it was banned in Ottawa
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Consent at every stage, that's just awkward. Whatever happened to go until you get a no, that just feels a lot more natural.Feminists are saying that consent should be asked at every step because it goes back to the basic premise that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are two completely different things.
Feminism found growth by finding men who would support their cause.A feminist making a documentary about men's rights?
I think I'd rather watch paint dry or the grass grow lol
It looks interesting to me, but we don't all find the same things entertaining.Men wanting sympathy from women are misguided.
Men's rights stuff is boring. And a feminist filtering and validating that through her own little brain is doubly so.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Does that mantra apply to what the feminists themselves say?Feminists are saying that consent should be asked at every step because it goes back to the basic premise that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are two completely different things.
I plan to watch it when I can. Rollo Tomassi's take is that it's the story of a woman's "journey" (Cassie Jaye's) to enlightenment about the red pill.Just watched it. Feminist turned non-feminist. They talk about all the issues men face because that **** would take forever, but they talk about domestic violence, mysandry in the legal system, and then some other stuff. You know what's something funny that I learned? Erin Pizzey, founder of the first domestic violence shelter in the world became an MRA. And because of that, her own company kicked her out from it and she is no longer able to step foot in the shelter she bought or speak anywhere about anything. Feelsbad(wo)man
In most cases, yes.Does that mantra apply to what the feminists themselves say?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.