"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Has anyone watched "The Red Pill" movie?

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What's interesting is that the girl who originally made this was a strong feminist. Apparently during the filming she was intent on proving how men's rights were a joke and women were the victims.

The irony is she's completely changed her views now - she actually sides with men on the issues. Take a look:
I still don't completely trust her though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Enjoyed it profusely, especially when the feminist told the cop to get a real job LOL

The stat that stuck out to me was 1/3 women have suffered domestic abuse from their partner, which feminists bang out with a huge drum.

They don't mention 1/4 men suffered domestic violence from their wives/gfs.

From that you would think violence isn't a men's issue, but a human issue??

Some of the examples of custody battles, really is saddening.

An enlightening watch.
 

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I still don't completely trust her though.
You don't have to, it's just a movie.
I still haven't seen this, but it sounds like the message is a positive one.
 

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Once Cassie Jaye began to emphathize with the MRAs, she saw her documentary funding dry up overnight. The only reason the movie got finished was a kickstarter crowdfunding campaign that was promoted by Milo Yiannopoulos. I own the movie and it is thought-provoking, which is exactly what the feminists hate. They don't want the issues discussed to gain any traction.

Also - there are many women in support of the men's rights, anti-feminist cause, such as Karen Straughan, who is brilliant, Christina Hoff Sommers, also brilliant, Erin Pizzey, who was terrorized by feminists and had to leave Britain and live in hiding because she publicized her research that domestic violence was not a gendered male-on-female crime, and Lauren Southern, to name a few.
 

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A movie on Red Pill by an ex-feminist?
My gut says she's still a feminist in disguise who stopped getting laid as a result of constantly talking nonsense and came on our team for more attention.

Beware the Trojan Horse.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My gut says she's still a feminist in disguise
I haven't seen it, but I saw an interview with the lady who made it. It doesn't seem like there was any hidden motives. It seems like she only saw one side of the story, and in making the documentary, saw the other side.

It actually happens quite a lot, at least to people who aren't purely zealots. People can change their minds on issues when presented with more information.

If that wasn't possible then nobody could ever be convinced to be a double agent.

Ronald Reagan, for example, was once upon a time a democrat.

But from what I can tell but what I've read, the doc (Red Pill) is mainly about the court/divorce/custody system, and how men are easily screwed. It's kind of hard to not "wake up a bit" when presented with hard data that contradicts your views.
 

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Once Cassie Jaye began to emphathize with the MRAs, she saw her documentary funding dry up overnight.
That's the thing about the left. One whiff of dissent and they quickly eat their own.

It's pretty fun to just stand back and watch them self destruct, which they inevitably will. Kind of like those corny movies where they give the evil computer an impossible problem to solve and it explodes.
 

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A movie on Red Pill by an ex-feminist?
My gut says she's still a feminist in disguise who stopped getting laid as a result of constantly talking nonsense and came on our team for more attention.

Beware the Trojan Horse.
Exactly. Regardless of how much she's "woken up", she's still a woman so those feminist remnants will always be in her. Just like Christina Hoff Summers who claims to be against modern day feminism and what not but still calls herself the "factual feminist". All it takes is one topic for them to throw men under the bus leaving them shocked.
 

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Once Cassie Jaye began to emphathize with the MRAs, she saw her documentary funding dry up overnight. The only reason the movie got finished was a kickstarter crowdfunding campaign that was promoted by Milo Yiannopoulos. I own the movie and it is thought-provoking, which is exactly what the feminists hate. They don't want the issues discussed to gain any traction.

Also - there are many women in support of the men's rights, anti-feminist cause, such as Karen Straughan, who is brilliant, Christina Hoff Sommers, also brilliant, Erin Pizzey, who was terrorized by feminists and had to leave Britain and live in hiding because she publicized her research that domestic violence was not a gendered male-on-female crime, and Lauren Southern, to name a few.
Some guys here are way too suspicious. The feminists have been trying to throw blockades in this movie's way since before it even came out. If she is spreading our message, she isn't our enemy.

If men's rights is EVER going to find its way into the mainstream, and into the law, it is going to have to be embraced by a number of women. Just like feminism has been embraced by a lot of men. When one of these women is brave enough to speak out for our cause, you can't tell them to fvck off just because they're female. We need them on our side.
 

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I think the film is a step in the right direction. Apparently though, it got banned in Canada and Netflix will not play it in the United States.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Enjoyed it profusely, especially when the feminist told the cop to get a real job LOL

The stat that stuck out to me was 1/3 women have suffered domestic abuse from their partner, which feminists bang out with a huge drum.

They don't mention 1/4 men suffered domestic violence from their wives/gfs.

From that you would think violence isn't a men's issue, but a human issue??

Some of the examples of custody battles, really is saddening.

An enlightening watch.
How about the fact that violence on one's spouse was legal from the dawn of our species 200,000 years ago and only outlawed in the USA in the 1920's?

What about the fact that these dumb bitches probably NEED to get beaten every so often to keep them from being stupid. Why do you think there's so many dumb bitches running around?
 
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