El Payaso
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
They just want to stop sex completely or any normal male-female interactions within traditional gender roles over the last 1000's of years. There are some of them who are saying that sex is basically rape.Haven't seen it, but the trailer looks interesting.
Roober, false rape accusations, and even depicting regular consensual sex as rape, are men's rights issues. Feminists want men to stop and ask permission at every step, but we all know how well that goes over.
Feminists are saying that consent should be asked at every step because it goes back to the basic premise that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are two completely different things.They just want to stop sex completely or any normal male-female interactions within traditional gender roles over the last 1000's of years. There are some of them who are saying that sex is basically rape.
If you did have to ask for sex at each stage in the process, how much would that turn a female on? It would turn her off, this is why feminist know if they can get this to pass they have killed even more of the male population from sex.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It is available on digital streaming services like Google Play and iTunes: https://play.google.com/store/movies/details/The_Red_Pill?id=_mB13NV7rY0&hl=enIt hasn't shown up in my city yet (mainly because there's no CAFE branch here), but it was banned in Ottawa
http://equalitycanada.com/theredpill/
Its a hindsight thing for them. In hindsight if they enjoyed the sex, then it was Ok that you didn't ask. But if they didn't enjoy it, you were required to ask and if you didn't, now it's rape.Feminists are saying that consent should be asked at every step because it goes back to the basic premise that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are two completely different things.
Damn. If you don't like what people are saying, shut it down, I guess.It hasn't shown up in my city yet (mainly because there's no CAFE branch here), but it was banned in Ottawa
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Consent at every stage, that's just awkward. Whatever happened to go until you get a no, that just feels a lot more natural.Feminists are saying that consent should be asked at every step because it goes back to the basic premise that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are two completely different things.
Feminism found growth by finding men who would support their cause.A feminist making a documentary about men's rights?
I think I'd rather watch paint dry or the grass grow lol
It looks interesting to me, but we don't all find the same things entertaining.Men wanting sympathy from women are misguided.
Men's rights stuff is boring. And a feminist filtering and validating that through her own little brain is doubly so.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Does that mantra apply to what the feminists themselves say?Feminists are saying that consent should be asked at every step because it goes back to the basic premise that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are two completely different things.
I plan to watch it when I can. Rollo Tomassi's take is that it's the story of a woman's "journey" (Cassie Jaye's) to enlightenment about the red pill.Just watched it. Feminist turned non-feminist. They talk about all the issues men face because that **** would take forever, but they talk about domestic violence, mysandry in the legal system, and then some other stuff. You know what's something funny that I learned? Erin Pizzey, founder of the first domestic violence shelter in the world became an MRA. And because of that, her own company kicked her out from it and she is no longer able to step foot in the shelter she bought or speak anywhere about anything. Feelsbad(wo)man
In most cases, yes.Does that mantra apply to what the feminists themselves say?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.