"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Has anyone watched the pathetic pick-up video advertised right here on this very site

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This is the worst example of pick-up I have ever seen. This guy is fidgety, annoying, and couldn't have picked worse targets. Watch this to see exactly what not to do, and what kind of women to not bother approaching.

This guy would have been better off pretending to pee in the fountain. :rolleyes:

http://www.puatraining.com/secret/live-pick-up-demos/video-2.html
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is a great website.

One of the best online in fact but it would be nice if the owner of this place checked in every once in a while to get some feedback on what could be improved.

The DJ Bible needs updating and if that video is as bad as you say it is Dongfu than it needs to be removed and replaced with something you or another DJ member makes to replace it with doing the same thing but only better.
 

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lol. The guy is a dork. The first 30 seconds he did ok and should have number closed alot sooner. He really started to become annoying. I think he did pick the right group of girls, if he tried to pull this in NY with some american woman they would have told him to fvck off.

The coldapproaches that this guy pulls are a total joke. Most of his (Alistair) pickups are a total joke. Yet I bet this guy is one of the PUA's that the guys on sosuave worship.

Lets at least give him credit for having the balls to approach.:rolleyes:
 

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It is the advertising that pays his bills. I don't see this sites' top ladies men making videos and paying to have it advertised.
 

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KontrollerX said:
This is a great website.

One of the best online in fact but it would be nice if the owner of this place checked in every once in a while to get some feedback on what could be improved.

The DJ Bible needs updating and if that video is as bad as you say it is Dongfu than it needs to be removed and replaced with something you or another DJ member makes to replace it with doing the same thing but only better.
I wish I had my shyt together to demonstrate the way I approach women. My approaches are just way too random to catch on film. It would be like trying get some video footage of Big Foot. :crackup: Dongfu vanishes in a cloud of smoke.

My point about this video is that I'm not sure what he is trying to demonstrate here: How to annoy women until they finally throw you a bone so you'll leave them alone. This guy is not even close to being suave, and should not be affiliated with the site. But I'm sure they're paying good money for the link.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think the website owners need the money so they advertise the crap, Not sure though.

And why waste the time making a video when you can waste that time with the girl doing countless fun things
 

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Yeah he wasn't very smooth and those probably weren't the best of targets to pick. The one thing he did do good was to provide 90% of the conversation and keep it going, and he email closed, but an email close is as lame as it gets especially on girls you are just visiting a country.

What really irks me is the hype they use "Allistar gets massive IOI's". Nope he didn't get IOI's and when he suggested a date the girl said, "I have a BF.". Then they said, "The girl on the right is stalking him and wants her to be her BF." Highly doubtful, all he got was an email address and the girls said they were only going to be in his country for a week. He probably never so much as got an email, but if he did that's probably all he got was an email reply.
 

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In my experience with Asian chix (we seem to get a lot of asian exchange students in Australia) Koreans are by far the easiest to pick up and date, but they have really conservative values and u need a lot of persistence to score the pvssy (and be prepared to be stalked and/or expected to marry them after them). Japanese are outgoing and fun, Taiwanese are a bit shy but pretty funky if u get to know them

Worst Women Award goes to the Mainland Chinese. I guess because in their country there are 2 guys for every girl their age (thx to the 1 child policy) they're all Princess *****3s who sneer down their noses at you for even wanting to talk to them (even the ugly ones)
 

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Tao walker 2005 said:
In my experience with Asian chix (we seem to get a lot of asian exchange students in Australia) Koreans are by far the easiest to pick up and date, but they have really conservative values and u need a lot of persistence to score the pvssy (and be prepared to be stalked and/or expected to marry them after them). Japanese are outgoing and fun, Taiwanese are a bit shy but pretty funky if u get to know them

Worst Women Award goes to the Mainland Chinese. I guess because in their country there are 2 guys for every girl their age (thx to the 1 child policy) they're all Princess *****3s who sneer down their noses at you for even wanting to talk to them (even the ugly ones)
I agree, but be careful or you'll get my thread locked.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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