"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Has anyone tried Speed Dating?

bigneil

Banned
Joined
Oct 20, 2006
Messages
8,265
Reaction score
2,644
Location
Texas
A local bar where I hang out is having a speed dating event tonight.

The reason I am reluctant to go is because that's where I already hang out, and it's so small that I tend to meet everyone there anyway. It would seem to just be broadcasting that I'm single, and if I didn't meet anyone there things might end up worse off.

Has anyone tried speed dating and/or would you go to this event tonight?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Mike32ct

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 22, 2007
Messages
8,411
Reaction score
5,176
Location
Eastern Time Zone where it's always really late
I went to a speed dating thing once. They sit you with one female for say 8 minutes. You chat her up and then like musical chairs, you are seated with someone else for say 8 minutes. This goes on until you met every female that signed up. At the end, you secretly fill out a card or go online and click the ones you like. There is no rejection. If there is a mutual interest, you are given each others' contact info like email. You can also stay after the event and continue gaming some of them at the bar.

Overall, I had fun with it, but it might be awkward to try this at your favorite stomping ground. I would pass on this one and go to the next one that's held at a different venue. You don't need some c@ckblocking bartender or bouncer tell your speed date that you are at this bar every weekend or tell a bar girl that you were at a speed date event last week.
 
M

MonkeyButt

Guest
Been there, done that...

I tried it.
Mostly was filled with large lonely women.
Good practice for real life though.

Would avoid it at your regular watering hole.
 
Top