"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Has anyone tried FRIENDSTER??

DJ Alejandro

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guys, just joined the site. i think most of you guyz may have already *** across it but i think itz actually a great way of meeting new people.

first of all, they're already your friends' friends so that lessens the chances of them being psychos. :)

second, though it takes away the dignity of the real cold approach, the girlz who have been eyeing you dont really feel awkward inviting you to be their 'friend'.

believe it or not, ive met some of the hottest girlz in my skul thru friendster. and when they add me, its also a reason to approach them and get to know them better wether for dating or not. it also doesn't make you *** across entirely as a stranger so that increases the chances of not being rejected since you're 'friends' already.

commentz? dont get me wrong tho. i still do cold approaches. just thot that if there weren't really any girlz to approach when im at home or sumthin then maybe i could get busy a little. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kineti[C]harm

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First of all what the f is Friendster :D =) ? Second of all I really do like your posts but could you please drop the gangstah14yearold english and try to atleast follow a dictionary approach, no offence but it enerves me a great deal. Thank you.
 

Skel

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ya this isnt the high school forum here
 

DJ_Dork

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friendster is kinda useless unless you know people. and most of the time, no one communicates with each other. it's basically the itnernet version of a contact info book.
 
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