i have this co worker who im dating as of 2 weeks for now.i see her at werk almost every day and now i see her and talk to her every day like 24 7. and as of right now its going pretty well but i know good things never last. so i know i have to cut back on talking and chilling with her. I mean i can talk to her whenever and itll be fun. but i dont want to continue this cause im going to eventually get tired of her or vice versa
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has anyone one had a succesfull realationship wit a co worker?
- Thread starter dmatter
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
if you tells you she missed you just say "I know"dmatter said:
and ****y & funny stuff like that. Since you see her for an unhealthy share of time (work + outside work is too much and dangerous for a relationship) you need to try your best to still remain a mystery to her and not have her known everything about you. Girls get bored of you fast once they think they know you and got you figured out.dating coworkers is a known red flag but you only live once. For many of us dating doesn't come often so take whatever chance you get if the girl likes you, coworker or not. Just know that once this is over and you have to put up with seeing her around everyday it is going to be halla uncomfortable and it will make your days hell if you still haven't totally gotten over her.
I was in this situation and even worse since the girl was hot and a flirt. I wasn't totally over her and it make me feel jealous and i felt like s____ for a couple weeks having to see her everyday and watch her flirt with every guy out out there. Of course the only remedy to this is to see other girls cause that's what makes you forget past ones so in a way it helped to push me back into the game. So just remember that it feels good but because this is a coworker it will probably be worse after the breakup than in a normal relationship for the simple fact you will have to put up with seing the b|tch at work everyday.