"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Has anyone here purchased Doc Love's "The System"?

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I'm reading his old column from Askmen.com. I really enjoy the mans style, as he focuses more on keeping and improving attraction instead of racking up one night stands with gimmicks.

I'm actually thinking about dropping the $100 on his system and not pirating it based on the advice he's given to me free so far. Anyone purchase it and what did you think of it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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read the book.. it's ok nothing special.. some good ideas but def not worth 100 bucks... my views on books are once you've read a lot in a certain area if you can get one good idea out of a book it was worth it... if your knew some extra knowledge or outlooks can help...

eventually you'll make your own style till then learn and swing the bat... if you haven't gone through most of this site yet i suggest you do that and save 100 bucks.. this site has more to offer then that book...
 

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yes i got it ages ago, it was WELL worth the money, gives a very good understanding of relationships, but its not for picking up, its for LTR's and very good at finding a good woman (better than ANYTHING ELSE for screening them) and knowing the dynamics of a ltr/keeping her

you can find it online, but i say get the real book, as you will value it "properly",
he goes into a hell of a lot more detail in the book than on the askmen articles, its a very good foundation to build game onto

meeting chicks is one thing, KEEPING them is a totally different ball game

doc love fits perfectly with being a good guy, dj etc.....
its worth the $, a good book you can refer back to all the time for RL game

bam bam said:
this site has more to offer then that book...
no it dont retard, what site are you talking about? the askmen articles?
 

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I mean meeting girls isn't the hard part, just have no fear and have a natural conversation with some light kino and set up a date. Keeping and building interest I believe is the hard part.

Seems a lot of Docs advice will cover more aspects about relationships then just pick up material.
 

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I´ve read it, and the more experienced I get, the more The System makes sense. Especially about the harder topics like "not going back", "cheating", "another guy lurking in the background", "the woman actress" and so forth. You will disqualify a girl pretty fast, and protect your heart as well as your wallet.

http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_600/621_doc-love-shes-a-player.html

The female players I´ve encountered, I could figure them out pretty soon. By Female Players, I mean girls who like to make guys chase after them and give nothing back, or the ones who make you pay and buy them gifts while dangling the possibility of sex.

The only thing I disagree (about The System) is about not talking about your problems. Everybody has problems. The point is not to sound like a whiner or victim, and show more positive than negative.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kingsam said:
yes i got it ages ago, it was WELL worth the money, gives a very good understanding of relationships, but its not for picking up, its for LTR's and very good at finding a good woman (better than ANYTHING ELSE for screening them) and knowing the dynamics of a ltr/keeping her

you can find it online, but i say get the real book, as you will value it "properly",
he goes into a hell of a lot more detail in the book than on the askmen articles, its a very good foundation to build game onto

meeting chicks is one thing, KEEPING them is a totally different ball game

doc love fits perfectly with being a good guy, dj etc.....
its worth the $, a good book you can refer back to all the time for RL game



no it dont retard, what site are you talking about? the askmen articles?
no it dont retard? and i'm the retard... right moron... www.sosuave.net has better information the The System and then askmen.com If you can go through what this site has to offer you dont need to spend 100 dollars. You have everything you need.
 

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Blue Phoenix said:
I´ve read it, and the more experienced I get, the more The System makes sense.
I agree, i got the system years ago and it also comes with 2 audio cd's of his thoughts. It is geared towards LTR's and in that i think it's probably the best thing out there.

I think a good logical progression would be, DJ Bible/pook/anti-dump then the system once you find a girl you want to keep.

Also, was it ever 100% proved that Doc Love wasn't Anti-Dump? The more i read Anti-Dump, the more i think he is Doc Love.

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bam bam said:
no it dont retard? and i'm the retard... right moron... www.sosuave.net has better information the The System and then askmen.com If you can go through what this site has to offer you dont need to spend 100 dollars. You have everything you need.
the information avaliable online is patchy and incomplete,
the askmen articles are only a dip into the DL stuff, anti dumps stuff is v good, but still a bit patchy,
DL sets out in a good easy to understand framework...
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guys this is one of those things where you can be tight and not spend the $ and try and piece together all the bits of info on the net, or just get it, and have every thing together straight away ...

i think the investment (buying it) versus time/effort (piecing together all the info online) is very favourably on the side of just getting it. and you will have a book to read anywhere or flick through, rather than sitting in front of the computer, if you want to know something you just look it up,

yeh its $100, think how much crap you spend much more of your money on, things that have little benefit to your life ,
its an investment in your life
 

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Alot of you fellows on here believe you have to keep on reading and readin and listening....you dont need to go anywhere for answers theyr all ready in you getting women is easy! So easy I cant stress it enough. Im pretty sure you have had sex b4 or had a gf. To have a lot of women you just have to duplicate the process over and over. Meet more and more women and get more and more to like you dont waste time reading all these silly books
 
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