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The title speaks for itself, has anyone here ever got played by a female? How did you react? How did you cope?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Has anyone here ever been 'played' by a female?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
As a heterosexual male, yes I've been played. But you need to elaborate more on how you were played.
A player is someone who pretends to love someone but has ulterior motives. Strippers are the penultimate female players (pretending to be interested but only caring about money usually) so of course I've been played. I'm not a player myself (pretending to be interested but only care about sex) as I'm too much of a romantic.
You need to be a master detective at solving the mystery of whether a person really loves you or is using you. Everyone must deal with that.
For the past few years, women for the most part could never surprise me because when you read them properly you are always one step ahead. Early on I'll tell them "Do you realize you're falling in love with me?" and I'll tell them exactly how I knew. Later, for example when a 18 month relationship ended it went like this: "Do you think it's time to end it?" She paused. "I'll take that a yes". When men act like they were surprised by a breakup they weren't paying attention. She started checking out months prior.
A player is someone who pretends to love someone but has ulterior motives. Strippers are the penultimate female players (pretending to be interested but only caring about money usually) so of course I've been played. I'm not a player myself (pretending to be interested but only care about sex) as I'm too much of a romantic.
You need to be a master detective at solving the mystery of whether a person really loves you or is using you. Everyone must deal with that.
For the past few years, women for the most part could never surprise me because when you read them properly you are always one step ahead. Early on I'll tell them "Do you realize you're falling in love with me?" and I'll tell them exactly how I knew. Later, for example when a 18 month relationship ended it went like this: "Do you think it's time to end it?" She paused. "I'll take that a yes". When men act like they were surprised by a breakup they weren't paying attention. She started checking out months prior.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Yes, the girl I loved the first lmfao, met her about 10 years ago and was caught up for roughly 6-7 years. I was so caught up with her even without making out. She gave me several chances to escalate but I wasn't man enough and then she friendzoned me. She lead me on for years, giving mixed signals and giving me hopes that I could f8ck her. I worked out, bettered myself and now I f8cked her best friend, had a fling with her sister (right now, dated in the christmas weeks) and she knows I f8ck around in the whole city.
You guys can imagine this is a great accomplishment for TheGambino after knowing where I come from. But yes I was hooked and she played me, but I played myself too. She's pregnant from a guy that cheats on her.
You guys can imagine this is a great accomplishment for TheGambino after knowing where I come from. But yes I was hooked and she played me, but I played myself too. She's pregnant from a guy that cheats on her.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
My ex-wife...
I get 'played' all the time.... if you want to call it that. It seems like every year I find out at least one woman I date I later learn was just 'using' me to make a BF jealous and get him to commit.
Truth is I really don't care... I'm certainly not going to commit. I'm just the dude chicks can fvck until they find a slave.
Other than my ex... no chick has ever taken me for money, because I never give anything without getting something in return.
I get 'played' all the time.... if you want to call it that. It seems like every year I find out at least one woman I date I later learn was just 'using' me to make a BF jealous and get him to commit.
Truth is I really don't care... I'm certainly not going to commit. I'm just the dude chicks can fvck until they find a slave.
Other than my ex... no chick has ever taken me for money, because I never give anything without getting something in return.
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After arriving at her place for a few days her attitude towards me was unacceptable and I asked to her to take my back to the airport..
My ex left me stranded in the airport overnight while she fvcked my replacement the same night.
Being 'played' makes you more aware and makes you realize the truth behind these games women play indeed.
My ex left me stranded in the airport overnight while she fvcked my replacement the same night.
Being 'played' makes you more aware and makes you realize the truth behind these games women play indeed.